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I Grew Up Thinking Vulnerability Was Weakness, It Cost Me More Than I RealisedThe message where i grew up was not subtle about this. Men did not cry in public. Problems got handled quietly. Needing help was something you kept private if you could not avoid…
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I Finally Admitted I Was Unhappy and Everything Started to ChangeFor a long time i told myself i was fine. Not thriving exactly but fine. Functional. Getting through. I had things others did not have and i knew that, so complaining felt…
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The Most Generous Thing You Can Give Someone Is Your Full AttentionMy phone was face down on the table. That was my compromise. Not away, not silent, just face down. And i still found myself aware of it the whole time. Still half somewhere else…
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What You Tolerate Is What You Are Teaching People to Do to YouThere was a situation at work years back where someone consistently took credit for contributions i made. Not dramatically. Subtly enough that calling it out felt…
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Some Seasons of Life Are Just Survival and That Is OkayThere was a stretch of about fourteen months that i do not have a lot to show for externally. No big moves made. No visible progress on the things i had said mattered to me. Just…
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Being Kind Is Not the Same as Being Weak, It Just Looks That Way to Certain PeopleSomeone told me once, early in a work environment i had just entered, to stop being so approachable. Said it in a way that suggested approachability was a strategic mistake. That…
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The Things I Worried About Most Never Happened the Way I Feared They WouldI have wasted so much time in imaginary disasters. Lying awake running through scenarios that were detailed and convincing and completely fictional. The conversation that would…
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Nobody Actually Has Life Figured Out, Some People Are Just More Comfortable With UncertaintyThere was a man i worked under early in my career who carried himself with a kind of settled confidence i found genuinely impressive. Decisive. Never seemed rattled. Walked into…
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I Wasted Years Trying to Change People Who Did Not Want to ChangeThere was a friend, someone i had known since we were teenagers, who i spent the better part of three years trying to quietly redirect. Not in an aggressive way. More like gentle…
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I Spent Years Waiting for Permission to StartThe business idea i had at twenty two. The writing i kept meaning to do. The conversation i kept postponing until i felt ready enough, qualified enough, certain enough that it…
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