Alive & Thriving Chooseday Thoughts : The Power of Choice || AATYr6 || Prompt A Day 😊


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Happy Chooseday 🎉 remember to choose happy always 😊 Yep, it's that time of the week when I try to write about what's on my mind. Today I'm a little sleepier than usual so I'm not sure if I can do it much justice. 😆 I could, however, still try. 😆 Well, my nights for sure are quieter since my daughter's working the night shift now and time zone difference kinda sucks. I'll get used to it and wait till she adjusts and finds the time for our chat. For the meantime, I can keep busy or entertained. 😝

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I'll paraphrase this famous quote : between the stimulus and the response is a choice. It's a longer quote but that's basically the essence of it. We have the power to choose how we respond to any given situation. It does help to take time to breathe then think logically on what to do next. This is exactly what happened to me earlier in the evening. You see, my meals delivery for the following day usually arrives between four to six pm. I'm not sure why today it was pretty late as it crossed the time when I'm supposed to have my early evening walk. I was a bit rattled but I chose to carry on my usual walk as I debated with myself on what to do next. I did eventually inquire from the company just to appease my mind. 😆 Well, my delivery finally arrived past seven in the evening as I was about to feed the kitties their dinner. By then, I was almost done with my walk. Glad it turned out just fine. 😛 Whew!

Well, my example is pretty specific, but I guess every day I work on focusing more on things I can change rather than reacting to things or people (or even pets) I have no control over. I find that helps me keep calm more often. 😆 I'd like to think it's also better for my peace of mind.


Prompt A Day : QUOTE

"The capacity to learn is a gift; the ability to learn is a skill; the willingness to learn is a choice." - Brian Herbert

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Glad this quote is tuned in to my topic for today. They say you can't teach old dogs new tricks -- they don't want to learn. I think it very much refers to us too. Truly lucky are those folks with the capacity to learn just about anything with little or no effort. For the rest of us, it may take a little more hard work and perseverance to be able to learn new stuff at all. 😆 Most importantly though is the willingness to learn. We mostly do not even give it a thought if something is not to our liking. Perhaps learning a foreign language can be a specific example. We all know children learn it best. I did learn to be trilingual in school. 🤔 Bottom line is if there's a will, there's always a way.

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Fourteen days to go. Oh wow! That's exactly two weeks to go before a new month comes. 🙄 who's counting? 🤣 I'd say let's just enjoy each day as it comes.

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Sometimes life catches up with us and we get won down, hope you can push yourself and find colaborative time to catch up with your daughter.
Have the best one @iamraincrystal
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tysm my friend 🎉 !BBH
happy midweek!
good to be !ALIVE
cheers 🍷 !WINE

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Congratulations for choosing to be happy. Great work done.
!ALIVE
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thanks! !HOPE you'll also choose happy always 😆
happy midweek! 🎉 !BBH
good to be !ALIVE

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Maybe you can set times to talk with your daughter on her days off.
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Guess I'll wait till she's well adjusted to her new shift 😉 !LOL
happy midweek! 🎉 !BBH
good to be !ALIVE

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daughter's working the night shift now and time zone difference kinda sucks

Tell her to keep at it, don't give up! It's worth it! !BBH

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thank you for the encouragement 😆 really appreciate it! 🎉 !BBH
happy midweek!
good to be !ALIVE
cheers 🍷 !WINE

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Yes, I agree with you. It is how you react to what is happening that is important which is the choice that most people do not take the time to consider. Most make an emotion reaction instead. I have been working on being more intentional in my choices but sometimes when you are caught off guard it might cause you to react from emotion instead. Take care.

!ALIVE

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thank you 😊 it does take time to develop the habit of non reaction !LOL 😆 I've been working on it for a while now. I always try to remind myself that between stimulus and response is a choice. 😉 happy midweek! 🎉 !BBH

good to be !ALIVE

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Our responses, even when old wounds are triggered, is indeed in our hands, and we can learn to navigate even challenging experiences easefully. It's the difference between unconsciously reacting, and consciously and intentionally responding. Oh, learning, that's one of my favorite things, and I'd say that even more important than being able to learn easily, is being able to learn, unlearn, and relearn. Have an amazing mid-week, Rosyel! 😁🙏💚✨🤙

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consciously and intentionally responding

I like this. It is so true !INDEED our response is the only thing we can control.

being able to learn, unlearn, and relearn

Totally agree with your insights. 👍 It's a challenge but I do believe it can be done.

Happy midweek! 🎉 !BBH
good to be !ALIVE

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I'm glad that you appreciate them, Rosyel, and indeed, the gems are in the challenges that we surmount. Thanks a lot, and I hope that your Thursday is smooth as silk! 😁🙏💚✨🤙

!ALIVE
!BBH
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Choosing to focus on you and things you can control truly gives peace, because we can't control how people treat us but we can control how we react.

Thanks for sharing your inspiring thoughts.

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thank you for the words of encouragement 💞 !BBH
happy midweek 🎉 !PIZZA
good to be !ALIVE

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It's always my pleasure 🤗

Thanks for the tips.

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That's an amazing quote for the day.
It has a cool meaning.

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thank you 😆 !BBH
happy midweek! 🎉 !PIZZA
good to be !ALIVE

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I agree with you.
We have the choice to choose how to react to things in life.
And whichever we choose we have to be responsible for it.

Do enjoy your day.

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thanks 😆 happy midweek 🎉 !BBH
good to be !ALIVE
cheers 🍻 !BEER

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Nice to know that the meal turned out great despite its late arrival.

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!INDEED I'm quite glad too. 😆 Seems I need to get used to the new delivery time. Oh well.. It does give me peace of mind not needing to think of what meals to prepare on weekdays. 😉

An advance happy weekend.. !BBH
Good to be !ALIVE

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