Real Talk Weekend Prompt Step into the Hot Seat #13
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Remember in our introduction post when we said we’d be doing something special for weekends? Well… here it is!
Each week, we’ll gather all the best questions asked in our Discord community and post them here on Hive for our Weekend Prompt also known as the #HotSeat. These questions are straight from the minds of our members real people, real thoughts, real talk.

In courtesy of the Weekend Prompt
Originally inspired by:
@sam.hangout – creator of the Hangout vibes.
While our motive for the Real Talk Weekend Prompt is a little different, these amazing initiatives inspired us in their own way. Here, we aim to take questions gathered from our Discord Channel during the week and open them up for deeper, thought provoking discussion on Hive.
If you need anything to ask, please feel free to drop your question in our Discord it might just make it into the next Weekend Prompt!
Objective
The Real Talk #HotSeat Weekend Prompt is designed to:
Bring our Discord conversations to Hive so everyone can join in.
Encourage members to share personal insights, life experiences, and honest opinions.
Strengthen connections between question askers and responders.
Spark meaningful engagement that goes beyond surface-level comments.
If you need anything to ask, please feel free to drop your question in our Discord channel it might just make it into the next Weekend Prompt!

- How to Participate
- Pick one question from the list below.
- Reply to it in the comments section of this post.
- Tag the person who asked the question (their name is beside it) so they’ll know you’ve answered.
- You can only tag one person per comment but you can answer more than one question if you want (in separate comments).
- Tagged at least two user to join the conversation not necessarily from the community remember it an open conversation.
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This is your time in the #HotSeat answer honestly, speak your mind, and don’t hold back.
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Last Week Winner
Before we Engage in this week prompt Let's congratulate the Last week Winner @temmylade for the Weekend Prompt Hot Seat #12 it was a lovely question and answer coming from both perspective and also we appreciate everyone who participated in last weekend prompt
Let move to this Weekend Prompt the question are:
If I could speak to my younger self what would my advice be.
What’s a belief you held strongly until life proved you wrong?
When you set goals what matters most to you in deciding whether to pursue them? Is it your passion,progress,balance or purpose
That's it for these weekend hot seats prompt Let's begin pouring in our thought on it
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Congratulations to the winner. More wins
@temmylade Smiles… I once believed that being a dreamer was enough to bring my visions to life. But life proved me wrong. I have learned that while dreaming is good, turning those dreams into reality requires serious work, persistence, and resilience. Life is not a bed of roses, and it is not a game as usual it is a game unusual.
Dreaming is the easy part, it is the courage, the hard work and the consistency that actually bring the dream to life. Life really does humble you and show you that nothing happens by wishful thinking alone, it is definitely not a “game as usual,” because real growth takes strength and intentional effort.
Yes
@betheloji12 well I will tell my young self that a value added everyday makes one better and grow stronger everyday.
Adding value to yourself little by little each day really does shape who you become, it is those small, consistent improvements that make a big difference over time.
Yes.. a little here and a little there build us up..
Ofcourse, good morning and do have a productive weekend ahead 😊
Thanks and you too.
@betheloji12 If i should speak to my younger self, my advice will be. 1. To work hard because nothing good comes easy. 2. To believe in myself and achieve my aim in life.
Your younger self would really grow with that mindset, work hard, stay focused and believe you can reach your goals. Those two points alone can change a whole life.
Believing in one self and working will change a whole lot thing. Thanks for stopping by🤗🤝🏼💜
It sure will.
You are welcome 🤗
I invite @oluchi31 @cecilia1 @nwanna. Join in discussion
Awww Awww 🥰 Thank you @therealtalkk and everyone who finds my question worthy of their time.
We go again this week with more positive vibes 👍
@betheloji12 I would tell my younger self to slow down, trust the process and build consistency early.
I would remind myself that patience, discipline and the courage to take opportunities when they come make all the difference in the long run.
@omoomowess01 For me, purpose comes first, if the goal aligns with where I am headed and what I truly want for my life, then I will pursue it fully.
After purpose, I look at progress whether the steps I take are actually moving me forward. Passion is good and balance is important, but purpose is what keeps me committed, even on the hard days.
Lovely sis,Thanks for your contribution 🙏
You are welcome 🤗
Hearty congratulations to the winners🎉
@betheloji12 if I could advice my younger self it would be , to seize every moment , do not procrastinate because life is short. Sometimes, opportunity if lost never comes back again.
Don't wait until you have all the details to start something new, start and learn as you progress.
@temmylade I've always held this belief that what is meant for me will always come on its own. But life has proved me wrong. I have to go for it to bring it to reality.
Life really teaches us that "what is meant for us” doesn’t just fall into our laps, we have to step out, work for it and claim it. Waiting alone doesn’t bring results, but taking action changes everything.
Absolutely! 💯👌 The difference is in taking action.
Of course
Yeah!
@omoomowess01 when I set goals my decision to pursue it has to do with its alignment with my purpose, that is what matters most and that will also fuel my passion towards the realization of it.
Thanks so much for the contribution 🙏
It's my pleasure!
@temmylade i use to believe that as long as you didn't sleep with someone husband , if someone sleep with yours. If you pray or curse the person karma will locate the person. But that's a pure lie. Whether you sleep with someone husband or not . Just pray not to marry a community dick cause you will question your life and faith all over again. Life doesn't work the way we imagine it. Cause this sone of this generation of men and women lacks discipline and self control nothing concern karma
Life has a way of showing us that karma doesn’t always play out the way we expect. Sometimes it is not about what you did or didn’t do, it is just about the kind of person you ended up with.
A partner with no self control can make you question everything.
Exactly
@betheloji12
My Answer to Prompt One.
Don't rely solely on your intelligence; explore your skills, network with people, and take calculated risks. Let the universe do its thing!
I'm inviting @storygoddess @mikechrist
Thank you
You're welcome
@temmylade
MY Answer to Prompt Two
I'm inviting @tayo6 @ovey10
Hehehe such a powerful realization, the kind of awareness that changes the way we approach life.
A lot of us grew up thinking book smart was all it took but life shows a different picture 🤣 success really comes from a mix of intelligence, emotional maturity, social skills, values and adaptability. Knowing how to relate with people, how to carry yourself, how to make the right choices, all of that matters just as much as IQ.
I can't blame us; we were young, naive, and our parents or guardians didn't know any better. Some life lessons must be experienced to fully grasp the concept.
You are right and it is a good thing we all learnt from it
@betheloji12 If I could speak to my younger self…
I will tell her to stop worrying so much. Life won’t always go as planned, but that’s okay because it still finds a way to work out. I will tell her to be patient with herself, to understand that growth takes time and mistakes are part of the process.
Most importantly, I will tell her she is stronger than she thinks and one day, she will look back and smile at how far she has come.
@joeboi24 and @happy080 come and join this Real talk
Preshym🧡
It wasn't easy for your younger self,😁
But believe me, you are a Queen now, life doesn't always get easy most times, we just get stronger... Remain blessed my bestie
Yah right.
Thanx for the encouragement.
Sometimes I will just look back and just smile..
Life happens!!!!!
Life surely happens
Beautiful lady I admire your courage ❤️
Thank you
This is so beautiful and deeply comforting.💖
I think many of us need to hear this reminder— that things don't always go as planned, but somehow they still work out. Growth really does take time, and it's amazing how strong we can be without even realizing it.
Yes exactly..
If things don't go as planned we don't have to dwell on it...we just have to move on
Naso my sister.
Keep moving and stay focused.
Yes
Smiles 😊
@omoomowess01 When I set goals, what matters most to me is purpose. I have learned that passion comes and goes, and progress can be slow, but purpose keeps me moving. It gives me direction even when I feel tired or unsure. Once I know why I am doing something, it becomes easier to stay focused and patient. For me, purpose is the quiet strength behind every dream I chase. So yes it's the purpose that drives me
Woow , am so impress with your write up sis. Am keeping that in mind🙏
Congratulation sis
believed that once i graduate in school plus my father’s influence would automatically land me a government job and secure my future. But life prove me wrong.@temmylade
@therealtalkk i haven't received the reward for winning last week's hotseat.
Reward sent make use of discord channel admin can reach out to you immediately