The Pressure to Keep Up: A Story We Never Question

There is a sensation that we all get to feel within our own cells which is going to be above the fact that we are calling behind among others and it is a certain realization which we get to feel in a particular point of time whenever we notice something and that hits us like a massive realisation and we instantly panic and start to believe that there is a very big gap between us and other people.

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There are actually many things that play a rule in this particular aspect into happening but in reality there are a lot of things that are pretty different than what we think them to be but ultimately it is definitely going to be having a lot of impact on us because there is a big gap between what we thought we were and the actual thing that we are in comparison to other people and the progress that they are making which makes us feel so.

As per the society that we are living in there is a certain timeline that we all have to be following which is something that place a massive role in doing the things that we are doing and it is something that is not written anywhere as well but is something that we all are following in a blind way which is going to be doing certain things at certain age of our life as well which definitely puts a bit of pressure on us if we are not able to manage according to that.

One of the things that we need to actually understand is going to be about the fact that there are going to be different situations that every person is going to be getting to face which is going to decide the things that are going to be challenging them and obstacles that they are going to face which is going to be giving them a completely different experience of the same thing that they are doing which is why it can be taking a lot of different amount of time in comparison to what it took from us and also a lot of different amount of effort as well.

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When things are pretty different in comparison to what are the people are doing and what we had to do for the same thing it needs to be understood that there are going to be these differences which is why comparing ourself with other people about the same thing doesn't really make sense but it is something that we are still going to be finding yourself doing and getting involved in as well which is actually not going to be giving us any positive insights but is going to definitely show us certain things which is going to put pressure on us.

One of the most natural habits of human is obviously going to be of comparison which is something that happens on a very unintentional basis on many occasions as well which is something that we can't really control on most of the occasion which leads us to comparing ourself and the progress that we have made to other people and when we are not asking the things that they have you it makes us feel that there is a massive gap and we are falling behind.

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The involvement of social media has even more boosted this whole mindset of following behind because we are only noticing at the highlights of other people about the green part of the life in terms of the achievements that their made which is the only thing that their sharing on their social accounts which is something that we are noting but Behind Those achievements there have been a lot of struggles and the efforts that were actually needed to achieve that which is something that we are not able to see which it feel that they have got everything even without doing much but in reality it is not the case.

The culture that we all have actually implemented in our Lifestyle these days and is something that most of the people are promoting is going to be of being constantly productive and that is also putting a lot of pressure on us and ultimately we are getting ourselves involved in doing something all the time even if it is something that is not adding any value to us but just to fit to the narrative that the society has setup we are trying to do something and that is also going to make a feel let we are calling behind even if we are taking a short break and we feel that someone else is utilising that same time which we are using for a break.

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