Criticism: Tool for Growth or Weapon of Insecurity?

Criticism can be something that can make a lot of people uncomfortable and that is something that is a very big part of our lives regardless of whatever we are doing and whatever environment we exist in it can come from any person who is around us and it can feel like a person attack as well many times. But more often than not we need to realize the fact that criticism isn't going to be the enemy that we think it to be it is more like something that we need to know about ourselves that we are not able to see unless someone is showing that to us.

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Criticism can be very helpful to grow ahead in our life and make that growth in all terms which can be professional or even personal but we need to realize the fan that there can be a lot of different aspects behind someone who is criticizing the US and understanding the nature of the criticism is extremely important because if it is the constructive aspect that people are offering with the intention of us improving by changing the things that they feel might make us better than it is something that can be very helpful and can show some changes which are going to be preparing us to improve in the long term but at the same time there can be destructive towards tearing down without having any practical sense attached to it.

Once we can decide the type of Criticism that we are receiving we can move forward because if we are receiving some constructive criticism then it can be very helpful and we should be always open to that without having anything to think about apart from that because it will help us learn a lot of lessons and make us better with the valuable insights which we will not able to see by our own.

But at the same time, there can always be a lot of people who just want to pull you down and make you in one or another other way and that is why there is going to be a lot of criticism which will be a person attack and that is something which we need to be defending ourself with and keep us away from the negative aspect that they want us to get involved in.

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Initially, I used to take criticism very personally because it was something that I was not very open to, and always used to feel like it was something that people just complained about but later on I started to develop this particular aspect within myself about taking criticism as a feedback which is going to be something that made me a lot better in almost every aspect and that is something that has been a game change you're for me but surely it took a lot of time and many habits changes to reach this stage.

One of the things that I understood to understand criticism the way it is by simply not reacting immediately because the first impulsive decision that we make while listening to anything about us is just to have that particular emotional outburst and that is something that we can be a wedding and staying come for a moment and try to listen what they are trying to tell us and also having an open mind while listening and having that attitude of curiosity than that particular sense of defensiveness.

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There can be a lot of improvement in almost every aspect if we are looking at criticism the way it is intended to be and taking all of the feedback is going to make us learn a lot of things that we might have overlooked and doing those things in that particular manner will surely improve our cells and also be displing the growth in a lot of other aspects as well but at the same time we also need to be very much capable enough to decide which criticism is to be taken and which is to be avoided because that is also something that needs to be thought about as many times people will criticize from the point of view of them being jealous or even that misunderstanding factor.

All in all, handling criticism is going to be a very necessary skill in this modern world as it surely is going to make us very capable enough to grow and give us those inside which we might have been missing and able to understand what the intent of people is by and their criticism is also going to be allowing us to make the decision and at the end all of this is going to be something that is a source we can learn from.

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