When Persistence Becomes Stubbornness - QC #156
Warm greetings to the Hiveans and QC family. It's a privilege to participate in this week's prompt as was presented by @qc community, which is hereby stated thus;
Persistence - How important is persistence to you? What's the difference between persistence and stubbornness? Do you think you should always be persistent, or do you think there comes a time when you just have to stop trying?
When I have a strong conviction about a course, or a goal I want to achieve I'm deaf to any form of negativity or roadblock. People may not see it the way I do, because it's a cross I have to bear, not theirs. I see walls that may stand as an obstacle against the way as a springboard on which I leap on to get to my finish line. That is how important persistence is to me, to be tough on setbacks and challenges that come my way.
It's easy for stubbornness to be mistaken as persistence because there's a thin line between both traits. While persistence could be said to be a situation whereby one continues to hold on to one's opinion, course or goal irrespective of any hitch or difficulty faced, especially because of the fact that it is a right course.
Stubbornness on the other hand could be said to be a situation where one refuses to change one's opinion, course, or action even when it's not reasonable to continue. While persistence is also a positive trait and refusal to give up on a decision that leads to growth. Stubbornness is a negative trait, especially when one is ignorantly refusing to give up on a wrong decision that won't make any headway or add value to one's effort.
When one encounters difficulties on the dream/goal to which one is pursuing that has a positive impact, I think it's a wise decision for one to be persistent in the pursuit of such a feat rather than give in. Because it is at a moment of challenges that one embraces breakthroughs if one perseveres. On the contrary, it is also a wise decision for one to quit a task when it has no positive impact nor encourages growth.
Perseverance is important when you've proven beyond every reasonable doubt and are convinced that the pursuit of a course is worthwhile. Persistence is exhibiting resilience or determination towards the pursuit of a right course or goal. Stubbornness is ignorantly refusing to shift ground or make a change even when the decision is unreasonable. It's right to persevere when the intention is right, as such never stop trying.
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That's great!
Thank you 😊!
You've got this @ivyann! Keep putting in the effort and you'll reach your target in no time.
Most definitely! Thanks for the encouragement, well appreciated 🙏!
All facts you wrote about in your post I'm not gonna lie that's the problem we human beings don't understand because we don't like to be judged by others on what we want to do but there are good people too who also want the best for us anytime they see things might not be going in a better place. Thanks for sharing this I truly learnt a lot from your amazing post 👌❤️
Yeah, so true!
Your kind words are delightful and soothing to me, you're very well appreciated. I'm glad you got value from the post.
Thank you immensely
I should be the one thanking you but it's all love really appreciate it and definitely you deserve more than kind words 😁
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This post is very nice 👍 and interesting 🤔 to read, keep it up.
I'm delighted you got value from it...thanks for your soothing words and for stopping by
Your post is very interesting I'm nice to read and well understood
Thank you so much for your kind and soothing words, very well appreciated.
Thanks again for stopping by.
OMG! This hit hard. And you're absolutely right. Everyone is going to give their opinion depending on their perspective, but in the end, no one has the same perspective as us, and therefore, it's not necessary to seek their approval or support if they can't see it the same way we do.
Exactly! Thanks for your insight.