The Power of a Smile

The Magic of Small Gestures
Everyone seems happy, but I’m not one of them. This thought makes a person more pessimistic. In this universe, no one is completely content with their life, but many are satisfied with the decent amount of happiness they have. I used to wonder how they managed this, and it troubled me. Then I discovered the power of a smile. Have you ever smiled at a stranger and gotten an angry look in return? I bet no one would say that, as people often smile back. I remember a man who embodied this gesture of happiness. Whenever we walked down the street, he would run his fingers through the hair of kids playing and make them giggle. If their ball accidentally hit him, he’d playfully kick or throw it back. His kind gestures made him famous in the neighborhood. People started missing him when he wasn’t with me. Instead of feeling jealous, I followed his example and soon caught the attention of many too.
Influence of Environment
Living in a place where you spend hours smiling is crucial because it relieves stress. It’s a natural phenomenon that issues arise where we live since we interact with others daily. Smiling is powerful. It can ease tension. On the other hand, being arrogant or showing anger can worsen problems. Often, those not involved in your troubles are affected by your arrogance too.
Why Do We Lose Friends?
Our mood can ruin relationships, but staying calm helps build and maintain them. Throughout my life, I used to complain that others were sharp while I was dull. But in recent years, I’ve developed the skill of smiling. If you agree with others’ perspectives and smile to show you’re on their side, you’re more likely to succeed. We hear in motivational videos that honesty wins everything, but in real life, sometimes you need to keep honesty in your pocket. Carrying too much honesty can weigh you down and make you fall.
Write this down: flattery can boost your reputation. In today’s world, no one wants to hear anything against them. I know it’s not ethical, but it’s what people expect now. The more enemies you make with your honesty, the deeper you’ll sink in life’s challenges. It’s better to make friends with the weapon of a smile. No one likes an angry or arrogant person. They might even think such a person belongs in a mental hospital. Nobody bothers to understand what’s troubling that individual. Perhaps they’re suffering because of their honesty.
I’ve faced indirect harm from my honesty multiple times. People kept me in their bad books and took revenge when they got the chance. I kept wondering when and where I went wrong, even after doing my best to make them forget. Maybe I missed my chance to win them over. I’ve seen people gain more attention and love because they were skilled at winning hearts with their sweet talk. Simplicity can hurt you too. It stops you from seizing the right moment. Society loves those who stay on their side, saying “yes” with a smile. Say good things while smiling, keep the bad thoughts in your mind, and write them down, but don’t say them in front of others. They’ll harm you later.
Wrapping Up
My viewpoint on life is simple: smile often. Stay calm for your own sake and don’t hurt others’ feelings. Enjoy the happiness of others and celebrate with them too.
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I have someone who’s mood is never good and I was at the point of giving up on her because I got tired of her mood swing but later I understand that some people are just like that in nature and the only way to help such person is to make them smile always because smile has the power to take the bad mood away.
This happened to me too. Last Sunday, someone asked why my friend is so strict and how I stayed friends with him for so long. He's not really strict, he just hardly ever smiles. But when he does smile or laugh, it makes me smile too.
Why are some people like that? My friend is the breadwinner for his family, so he's gotten super serious over time. For him, life isn't a joke. People like him are living life on hard mode, and it changes how they act.
Yeah, some people are like that because of too much responsibilities which make them think all the time
This is a very powerful message to me this beautiful morning. I also love to see people and I smile alot. I also hear people say to me that I smile too much, why? Sometimes I don't know what to tell them because I don't also know why I smile that much.
Reading your post this morning has really encouraged me to do what I know how to do best because it helps me relief stress and by so doing I don't transfer aggression to others.
Thanks for sharing
This reminds me of my Discord bio. I wrote it a long time ago:
"It’s fun having fun, you should try it."
Maybe you can reply with this to them, haha!
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I agree. Smiles can go a long way in setting a mood in a conversation and relationship. I also think if you smile enough it will change the mood of others around you.
There are times in life when it’s hard for me to smile. You reminded me how my brother-in-law lifts my mood whenever he’s around. He’s such a fun-loving guy, and my sister is lucky to have him as her husband.
I agree with you. If you are honest and serious with people, they(maximum) will not satisfied with you. Maybe it's because truth is bitter to accept. People just want to hear what can satisfy them. So, I also learned how to handle situation with smile even if it's with a fake ones. I just think except for my family member there is no need to show the honest behaviors of mine to others because they don't want to see it.
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What are you laughing about; this not a smile. I think you are a joker or something. Please seek a medical professional because you seem like mentally disturbed person infected with god complex.