LETTING GO OF PEOPLE IN THIS NEW YEAR

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Finally we have gotten in to a new year , 2025 was indeed a good one came with a lot of ups and downs and at the end of it we all moved into the new year and its something worth celebrating and for me I was in church to crossover to the new year. This is my entry for hivelearners quickly contest edition 2. And the topic is (New year new people.) well I've had a lot of fallout with people last year, I lost some friends along the line a lot of people showed me who they really are whether they were for me or they were not for me and yes there are people I wouldn't want to stick around with this new year.

I've lost some close friends some colleagues some people who are supposed to be there for me because we've know each other for a long time and it finally downed on me that power changes people, some people are only there for what they have benefit from you. In as much as ,the truth is that I have people I want to cut off they are also people who I hold dear that I do not want to cut off from for any reason and those who have stood there for are my friend's like Benita Ezeala and ejike igbokwe these two have always been there for me through the year they always listen to me and they understand me perfectly and I really appreciate them.

Yes I believe my circle needs to change I need to meet more people who are goal oriented and have ambition and also looking for ways not just to improve themselves and also carrying their friends a long , sharing knowledge. Its not just those who are there for whatever benefits they are getting from you at the moment. Yes I believe a change in network will work for me and that is going to be very possible because I would be going for service within the early months of this year and I'm going to be in the whole new location meeting people I have not seen before and also to build a whole life I will always looked forward to that.

I feel sad most times because I lost friends that I value a lot I lost people that I didn't believe would go and people just wondering what the problem is. But but how would I put it now life happens people change. But if I'm in their position would I change you never can tell or for me because I have higher authority above them or I'm not benefiting from them that is not what friendship is all about.

So I'm moving into the new year with a new mind being open to what God has to do focusing on my work looking for so many sources of income the country is getting harder by the day. And always putting myself first as a priority before anybody else because sometimes you pour a lot into looking out for people and caring for people and at the end of the day you see that you are left out I learned that last year and I learned it the hard way .

We should master the act of letting people go in our lives for the sake of our own peace and mental health not everybody is supposed to stay you're not supposed to learn everything from anybody you need to choose . And learn to stand up to some people that I can't take this from you I have my own life to live, yes and prioritize yourself and your happiness.. I believe if we can do this we would this have a good year. Don’t let your happiness not be tided to any particular person whatever that makes you happy do it but I let it not be a financial mistake or something illegal.

This is a very interesting and relatable topic I'm glad to participate in it and this is where I will drop my pen on hivelearners weekly contest.

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