You Don’t Have to Be Perfect—You Just Have to Be Honest

The way our world is shaped in such a manner that we always keep on chasing perfection and there are a lot of emotions that we are trying to be making in the best possible manner that is going to be the most suited ones in the eyes of the people around us but one of the things that we often try to hide or something that we avoid is to be vulnerable around people and it is something that is often a particular thing that gets misunderstood because of this fact.

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A lot of people do connect with been a thing that is going to be indicating that you are weak and is going to be portraying a certain indication which will be making a clear that there is a kind of emotional instability with that particular person and all of these has become a particular thing that people have started to believe in and this has been the mindset which the society has believed in and meet something quite normal.

There are a lot of complexity is that are going to be revolving around been vulnerable because it is always going to be a thing that will be existing with every single person but the ability to show case it or to discuss about it is something that is not often talk about and also get something that takes a back seat whenever any kind of emotional discussion is going on better the same time people can be looking at it as a weakness but if we can share it with someone then vulnerable can be a very big strength for us as well.

Vulnerability is not a weakness that people carry and that is something which we have just grown up to look like or at least used to believe in because everyone is going to be portraying it like that but it surely is not a weakness as we should always be thinking about been very much real to our self and always trying to admit the mistakes that we made and also if we are feeling not so great about a particular thing we should be very much about it and thinking about what people might think about it is going to be putting a lot more pressure on us and it is not very comfortable to be well with everyone but finding a few people who can listen to us when we want to speak is really big fortune.

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The biggest fear that people have because of which they do not get vulnerable around people is the fact that being vulnerable is going to be giving the other person the opportunity or the power with which they can be hurting us and that is something which surely is going to be a thing that puts us away from exposing yourself because there is a very big chance that when we are going to be opening up the opinions that day might have with our feelings or our thoughts will be something that might not match or Expectations and can make us feel even worse.

However on the other hand when we find people with which we can be completely vulnerable as well without having any kind of second third we have a very big strength with us because it is one of the closest relationships that we can have with any human as we might not have to even think about anything before telling them about our feelings or the things that are bothering us and it is only going to be developed when there is a big amount of trust and authenticity in that relationship with the other person.

Been vulnerable can be a huge strength as it can enhance our emotional stability to a very big level and having that person around us which is going to be providing us that support in our times when we require it is going to be very much helpful in our personal growth as well because we are never going to be running away from anything that is giving us any kind of discomfort as we are having that person with which we can be sharing all of those thoughts without suppressing it within our self which is going to be even more problematic for us.

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But apart from all of this they should always be certain boundaries that we should always be trying to maintain because being completely raw is also going to be something that may get a little bit unhealthy at times as we need to be aware of our emotional boundaries as well as the people with whom we are sharing things with as there can be a lot of factors which we might not think of which can be quite essential to care about and thinking about all of those things should be the actions that we take.

At the end of the day we should all accept to be vulnerable because there are a lot of flaws within our self and there are issues which I needed to be exposed to people and having those thoughts from other people is extremely necessary but at the same time we should also be very much thoughtful and careful about choosing the people with whom we are trying to get more exposed with because deyar can bi an lot off things that we should not be stepping into before thinking about doing these things as it can turn out to be a very big transformative strength for us if utilised properly.

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