Disappointed but Wiser: What One Betrayal Taught Me

Trust is of course something that is a very delicate aspect that is always going to be existing in our lives which always has to be valued quite a lot because once that thing is getting in any extent damage it is always going to be next to be impossible to rebuilt to that particular stage what it is used to be and that is why it is something that we need to be taking a lot of care with because it is very hard to established but quite easy to give it all away and making it something that is going to be extremely important to keep within the way it needs to be kept.

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There have been a lot of situations in our lines which we have felt to be a thing that our trust got exploited for one reason or the other and that is so common which is quite unfortunate to think this well but at the same time it is something that happens quite a lot and making it something that needs to be thought about and also explored in the manner which is going to make it quite important and necessary so that it becomes something that gets valued to be in the way that it need to be.

Most of the time it is extremely difficult even think that it is something that can even go around because once we start to trust people and believe them it becomes extremely difficult to think that's something else can even happen but there are situations when things go the way that we thought they might not and that is something which is extremely difficult to deal with.

I personally also have a story to share in this regard when I was kept away or simply betrayed by one of the people I trusted quite a lot and then there was something that shattered me in many ways which I can't even explain or can't even imagine myself even till today which happened a couple of years ago. It was a time in my life when everything was going quite smoothly as I was in a particular environment where I was involved in something that I was not able to find people for to do a certain project that I had been thinking of from a very long period and suddenly I met a person with whom my thoughts aligned and we both started to work on that project as a start up.

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We both were very passionate about the project and started to work on it very closely and it was something that was very much visible in our friendship as well which developed into a deep bond of Trust as their has been a lot of things that you started to know about me in that no one else said and that is why I also developed the feeling that he was someone who truly had my back. It was something that was a side herself for me but slowly it developed into such a thing that there were a lot of seriousness into the project and me and him were working day and night for that and for the first few months it was great because we would dividing our task evenly and working on it.

But suddenly out of the blue there was one particular day and after that it became a sudden habit when he stopped responding to my emails and slowly there was imbalance in the work that we used to do and their became a bit of pressure on me because a lot of things I had to start doing alone and there was a certain question in my mind that what went wrong. After all, the thing that hurt me the most was not that I had to do a lot of work alone, but the silence that I received from his side as he just smoked away without communicating anything.

I tried to reach to him in many ways over the next few weeks but I was not getting even a clear answer that if you wanted to move out of the project or something happened and then weakest turned into months and I eventually realise that there is nobody as him that I am going to get back and I am alone now and I decided that I had to move forward without him. But the biggest part it was yet to come as after a couple of months I came across one of his social media post when he show that he was working on a project and to my surprise it was very much similar to the project that we both were working up on he took all of the ideas that I brought on board and started to build it on his own and also started to work on it in the order to launch it so low after a while and all of this heated without any gone the session and this betrayal was something that I could not ever digest.

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Initially I tried to convince myself that it might be a coincidence but slowly I duck deeper and found out that there were much more than just basic similarities and then I try to again reach out to him but as always he did not respond and that silencer something which was self explanatory and after a while I was quite Angry but surely it was my fault and friend into a very big pool of regret which was very hard for me to come out from and eventually I stopped working on my project as well because I lost a lot of motivation and all of it just did not feel right.

Sometimes I still wonder that why he did all of this with me and what might have been the thing that motivated him to do this and disappoint me for all of it because there was something that I felt very passionate about and it was my feelings that I shared with him and all the things that we had in those few months which felt very great but when all of the happened it on became something that all was a big question mark for me and it was something to happen but all of this definitely taught me a very hard lesson and also developed a lot of difficulty for me for trusting people again.

Disappointment can be really painful but at the same time it can be really great teacher as it might be showing us a lot of such things which we might not have learnt ever before and something that makes a stronger but at the same time it also develops a lot of issues for us because we are going to be finding very much difficult to trust someone again.

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