Lessons of Friendship I Learned Too Late
So today's topic is that perhaps there was something like this about friendship, which I should have known very early, but I came to know very late, and it was good that I came to know all that when I was actually very young. I was in another school. I had a lot of friends. I had best friends, and then my father got transferred. I left all my friends, and in a new school I did not know any friends. I got trapped in bad company of people who were like, "What? Who was how big? Who was how good?" After that my marks kept going down with him. I started working as a manager. In class 8, I probably did all those things that I should not have done. I felt a deep feeling that the people whom I considered my friends were never my friends at all. I have been suffering from bugs even in the first class. 9.
When I was in trouble that time, I realized that the person whom I considered my friend, for whom I might have taken this step, is not my friend at all. He never cheered me up, and after all this, he stopped talking to me, even though it was my mistake. I met a girl in the 10th class. My best friend is still with me, and she is my partner in everything from class to school to college to tuition to bank, and she is never leaving me. No matter how wrong I am. No matter how right I am. She has always been with me. Then I realized that friendship is not made by looking at money, color, or standard. Friendship is made by looking at the person. Friendship is made by looking at who stands with you and how much. Who is with you, how much, and at what time? Firstly, he may not be with you in times of happiness. But he will definitely be with you in times of sadness. He will fight with you. He will quarrel with you.
He will even stop talking to you.Maybe you may not talk to me for a year, but whenever I meet you, it will never feel like you have stopped talking to me. I had a boyfriend who stopped talking to me. There was a girl living at my place who is my friend. One day she told me that your girlfriend is flirting with your boyfriend, and then she said, "Why did you do this?" And then one day lockdown was imposed between us. Man, why ever this confession and I stopped talking? You found out through someone else that nothing like this had ever happened. He never did anything like this. Had such a thing ever happened? But he lied to me so that our friendship would break, and then I realized why I would have made a big mistake by calling him again.Confused him. I told him everything, and I broke off my friendship with the girl who told us this lie, and NO, IT'S BEEN 8 YEARS; THEY ARE TOGETHER. I have probably not trusted anyone since then. He has probably not trusted anyone since then. We have become friends.
Friends have met friends, we have made friends, and we have become friends. We are always with each other. Whatever we want to share with each other, we share it and stay with each other. No matter what happens. No one can come between us now, no one. I should have understood all this much earlier. I should have asked. I should have understood that the person whom you consider your friend does not necessarily consider you a friend. He can do things behind your back. He can do a lot behind your back. But I am so proud of my childhood that she can never do anything like this behind my back. She is the only person whom I trust completely, so I should have understood very early that the person whom I consider my friend may not consider me a friend, and it does not matter to me. For me, it is enough if I get just one more friend. That movie is my whole world, and that is enough for me. At that time, I would like to say that we have not been given the right to choose relationships.
We cannot choose our parents. We cannot choose siblings. We cannot choose relatives. But there is one relationship in the world that we can choose, that we can select, and that is friendship. So choose friendship wisely. You see who is with you in your bad times. In good times, everyone will stand with you. Everyone will be with you. Everyone will be around you because you are famous and you have money. You are beautiful, and you go through bad times. At that time, the friends who are with you are your real friends. Apart from them, you do not have any other friend. So try to find out who your real friends are. Now try to know who they are and trust only them, not anyone else. Because if you tell some of your secrets to someone thinking that he is your friend, then he will tell that to someone else, and either he will have that thing to blackmail you, then he will choose your friends, or he will choose your friendship.
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Tough situations is what really reveals the kind of friends we have.
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