Your Journey, Your Pace: Ending the Habit of Comparison
All the time we are actually carrying a lot of things in our life and one of the biggest things that definitely worries quite a bit is obviously going to be about the fact that if we are going to be lacking behind among different people that we are surrounded with because we are all actually finding ourselves in a position that we have to be continuously going ahead and there can be a silent thing that we think about all the time in our head which is going to be about lacking behind in every aspect that can be in the form of the information that people have or the skills that they gain.
Whenever we are having any kind of quite moment and having some thoughts with in our own self one of the primary thoughts is going to be definitely about comparing our own self to other people and in that particular time we are always going to be figure in out a lot of things which is going to be making us feel that we are lacking behind in something in comparison to other people.
This feeling of falling behind is something that is absolutely natural to happen and at the same time it can be caused by a lot of things but at the same time it is something that we need to be controlling at a given point of times because it can actually be something that can pull us down quite easily just because of the fan that we think it to be as a particular sign that can indicate of a failure that we are experiencing but in reality it is not anywhere closed to that.
It is a silent panic that almost every single person has in their life which is always going to be making them think of the fact that people are getting ahead of them and we are following behind which is something that is always going to be happening when we are comparing with other people and the primary think that we should be trying to do it to be just trying to stop comparing ourself with everyone else because the first thing that we need to understand is the fact that everyone is having their own timeline and we can't be comparing someone with the different timeline with us.
For every single person there is a unique path that they follow and things that work out for them might not even be an opportunity for us and their can be a lot of different factors that are going to be involved to be making them thing and the position where they are right now and in that particular way we can't be really comparing ourselves with them because we have not travelled on the path that they have used and we are having our own unique one which is never going to be making a same to be comparing each other in terms of the progress that we have made.
The social media culture in the present world has made this fear turn into a kind of pressure a not more because people are always going to be looking at the highlight that people are sharing and it is only going to be about the cream part of their life which is something that is not even the full picture of a life that they are leading but based on that we prepare a image that is going to be of the perception that we have which is going to be used by us to be comparing it to be one of the best things that there experience in to the roughest aspects that we are having.
What are the things that we need to also acknowledges going to be about the fact that there is no fixed path for anything and life is something that is always going to be having its own choices that everything will person is going to be having a very unique aspect to be choosing from which is never going to be the same in terms of different people which is visible as well because every single person responding their own timeline and even if there pursuing the same goal there can be a lot more difference in the way they are going to be getting there and the things that they are going to be facing which is something that is going to be decided by a lot more other factors as well which is something that we need to understand before even thinking of comparing also with someone and also concluding that we are falling behind.
The world is moving at its own page and everyone is living their own timeline and the things that they want to achieve is something that they are giving in efforts for but and the same time we need to understand the fact that it is not a his that everyone is competing in because everything is person is having their own things to pursue which is never going to be in the fact that we are going to be needed to be running faster and order to be making them fall behind then us because it is something it is going to be a particular aspect which we need to be figure in out rather than comparing ourself with someone else.
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