Why Adult Friendships Are Hard — And How to Make Them Work

Humans are very social and that is one of the biggest characteristics that we need to be following in our entire lives and that is something that we start to make bonds with other people very naturally and that has been happening since our childhood itself as the first of the friends that we made well we will playing in the playground or our School classrooms and these are the things that is going to be defined as the friendship that we build which is one of the first Bond that we create with the people and it is something that is very much important and also holds a lot of meaning in our life.

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When we were young those bonds between used to make with the people as friends for something that was not having anything in terms of a goal that you want to be achieving out of it but as we grow as adults we required a certain kind of aspect from a friendship that we have created because it is one of the sources of the emotional support that we can help as soon as it can be very much important when we are growing up as there are a lot of things which are going to be put on US in terms of the responsibilities as we are getting into adulthood and having people around us Windows particular time is something that is great support to have and friendship and be very much helpful in that regard.

But at the same time building meaningful friendship is something that is quite difficult and is not that easy to be maintenance Industrial and there are a lot of things that I needed to be taken care of to maintain at an also make sure that it is something that is going to be existing in the best particular manner but it is something that we are not able to do as we have seen in our personal life is well and the number of friends that we had initially shrink down to very big level when we enter into adulthood.

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There are a lot of benefits of having people around as one of the biggest strength that we happen to have when we are having good friends around is going to be the sense of belonging as the entire world is very huge and their can be lot of times when we feel isolated and in those particular times when we have people around us is going to be one of the best things that we can have as one as the support people can give you in terms of true friendship is extremely rare to find but very important to have a because there can be a lot of faces in our life when we would require those crucial bonds with us that will have empty as well as advice and a lot of the things is well which is why the importance of friendship and never be disregarded.

However it is extremely difficult to sustain a friendship and also keep it to be meaningful at the same time because there can be a lot of things that can change over period as people can move away which can be a very big factor in raining a bond as well at the same time there can be a lot of change in priorities among people because it can happen as people generally shift there interest in many ways which can be something that can be a very big impact on the friendship with someone else.

One of the things that we need to always realise is the fact that we might not have someone for our rest of our life but at the same time we should always be open towards Building New connections as it is something that we need to always keep in mind as we are very social and we need people around us and meeting people is something that is very much easy to be doing but at the same time having people who are going to be the ones that are going to be worth the of being friends say something that is not so easy and simple and that is why we need to be looking forward towards having those people enter that social boundary with in our life with a little bit of care.

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Many people also feel that they should be looking forward towards building more and more friends but at the same time we need to always realise the fact that we should have the priority of quality over quantity as we should look forward towards building meaningful and deep relations with Limited number of people even if that is the thing that you can be doing rather than looking forward towards building a huge circle of friends which is something that not be a very good thing to be doing as having people around you with whom you can be very much deep is something that is a very good thing to done which can't be done if you are around very big circle.

When we are adults friendship is something that is not a thing that can happen by any accident or some opportunity but it is something that is often going to be built on something that is going to be very much substantial and it will require a lot of consistency and efforts from both side to turn it to something that is going to be quite meaningful and having something that you can cultivate in that fashion is going to be extremely amazing as the experience itself is awesome and at the same time it can be helping you to be in a state that is going to be having you covered in almost every aspect of your life.

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