When Truth Feels Risky and Lies Feel Kind: The Danger of Being Too Safe

There are a lot of things in our life which we often get attached to in the form of the comfort that they are have to offer and that is something which we usually hold on to because it is something that is always going to be making a feel better and also helping us to be in a better place and a much better environment and that is why comfort is something that we all seek but many times one of those Comforts that we change becomes something that is not a great place to be at as well.

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In many cases, the comfort that was once a source of peace for us silently becomes a weight that we carry and a burden we can't let go of. Sometimes there is a silent danger that is always going to be looming around that comfort, which is something that we look at as being one of those sources that can make us feel better, and that is something which we don't serve until it is too late most of the time.

There is one such comfort that I also had in my life which is going to be aalling into this category because it was something that I was very much comfortable to have around me as it used to be very much useful for me in many occasions of my life and in many circumstances it was the best way to be making a lot of decision using that as well which is why I always use to be using it in many cases which became a Habit for me as well but it was something that was not making me realise about what I was walking into.

For me the most dangerous comfort that I always used to be having around me was not something that was about a person or anything else but it was more like a mind set that I had with in myself and that was of utilising the comfortable lies whenever I could use it because it always looked to me as a very safer option in comparison to all the other things that are available to be used because we can be always making other people happy by giving them what they want even if it is not true and that is what I used to be thinking.

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It was something that was a part of me from the very childhood because there were a lot of situations when out of just my curiosity and many other factors which involved been scared of other people and a lot of other things as well which made me do it and just lie basically in the manner which is going to be keeping other people around me happy or at least they are not going to be bothering me and in that manner it originated within myself and it was something that got a part of my mindset very quickly.

It was something that was not very obvious to me that what iver I was doing was not the right thing to do and it is not going to be something that I can even carry for a long time and at the same time it was also something that was going to be much more negative for me then the positive outcomes that I am looking at that it is providing which is something that took me a very long period to understand that dis is not a comfort that I am getting used to.

After a point of time my habit was something that never changed but the outcomes that it brought with itself definitely shifted quite a lot because now I was getting stuck in many occasions and in many situations when I was using a lie to be just making at the people feel the way they wanted to be feeling but that was something that was not giving me the adequate amount of results that I was looking at and that was something that cost me a lot of problems as well because that surely made me loose out on a lot of challenges as well as also my potential proper relationships were also not getting formed in that particular manner which it would have been if I remained true and real.

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Similarly there were a lot of situations when I face these kind of problems which made me realise the fact that this is something that I should be getting rid of and this is not a comfort at all it is just something to be using as a Getaway tool from a situation which is something that is not right at all and that was a very big realisation for me and after that I started to notice that there is no real connection or bond with any people because of this habits that I had for so long as well as they have been a lot of fixed scenario that have been a part of which has cause a lot of problems and this is the comfort which was killing me from inside.

It actually took me a very long period to let it go and unlone this habit but the realisation that I had which was about the fact that this is not any kind of comfort but surely something that is not a good thing to be having and that change of habit took a long period and I did suffer initially with my confidence in the situations that I actually used to be lying quite a lot in that particular manner which I thought was harmless but slowly that thing change within myself and I now see the results which surely is very much better than what it used to be.

There are a lot of things which we think to be a very good part of our life but in reality those things are not a comfort that we should be caring within our own life as they can have the potential to be destroying our life from inside and that realisation is something that we should be doing in a very good time before it is having the opportunity to be causing some sort of harm to us or any kind of negative impact that it can have within our self.

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