The Discomfort of Change and the Growth It Brings

about 1 month ago

Changes are one of the most fundamental aspects and our life which is something that we go through and it is something that is obviously going to happen as we are going to be adapting to all of the things that we are coming across which is surely going to be forcing us to do certain things in a different manner which is ultimately going to lead us to be different than what we used to be and that is how we all do get to be changed over time.

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The fact that we are never going to be staying the same is actually something that we need to understand as everything has its own role to play in our life and nothing is going to be permanent we are going to come across different situations which is forcing us to be different to adapt to those situations and make a capable enough to be handling them in the proper manner which is what change is all about and that is also what makes it so much important as well because without that we could be stuck at a same place and not even make any kind of progress as well.

However dealing with changes is not really very easy to be done because we definitely build a very comfortable position with our own version and making changes to that is not something that is very much easy for us as we are not willing to get out of that sense of familiarity which is what makes us so much more attached to that same version and ultimately making it quite hard for us to do it as well.

There are many such changes that we are not even ready to accept within our own self but it is obviously something that we are going through in a process as well and one such change that I am slowly starting to accept his obviously going to be the fact that I had a particular mindset that made me feel that I am always in control of the situations that I am involved in which actually made me feel very confident enough but after a lot of experience is which I actually faced in my life I understood the fine that not everything is under my own control and I have to let go up that mindset.

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But it is something that I am not very comfortable in accepting as well because it was a very strong believe within my own self and it was something that made me feel confident and motivated about dealing with situation but in reality it is something that is not the case which is slowly been accepted by me as through a lot of things that made me feel disappointed and the moments when I still clung on to hope it didn't turn out to be the way I thought it to be and that is when I just stopped believing in it.

It has been a very gradual journey into make in that change even start to proceed because it was something that I had a very strong trust on which was started to getting a little bit of deterioration as there used to be a lot of such moments when that same thing did not hold in the situations that I was a part of which made me question on the same aspect and later on blamed my ownself but slowly I understood the fact that it is something that is the flaw within the mindset itself.

The resistance towards not accepting the change was quite natural because it is bound to happen as we have been believing on something for such a long period of time and letting it go at an instant with certain examples that are put in front of us is not going to work which did happened with me as well which is why I did face a lot of resistance to let go off that mindset and giving it another shot.

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But gradually it was something that I started to manage in a very slow manner as I started to be quite neutral in situations and thought about it as been something that might be under my control if I work like that or even if it is not it is not a big deal I am going to figure out a way that is going to be helping me across that situation and this is something that slowly help me get away from that mentality and go towards a bit of change.

This is something that happens with everyone of us and terms of dealing with any kind of change which is actually going to be very much important for us in our life as well because even if something that we have been involved in for a very long period of time and have complete faith upon might be something that we have to let go and it can be a process that might not be very easy for us but surely it needs to be done which is something that is all about life.

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