The Day I Chose Myself Over Everyone Else’s Expectations

Change is one of those particular aspects in our life which is obviously going to be a constant as we are continuously developing and the situations which we are facing today might be very different to what we used to face just a previous day and that is why one of the things that used to seem very much important in the past may become irrelevant today and their can be a lot of these kind of factors which are actually going to be pushing us towards evolving into the adaptation of different situations that we are facing in the world today which is why we are always going to be having those changes within our own self.

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It is something that is going to be Universal in almost every aspect that is attached to us it can be the thoughts that we used to believe in as well as it can actually be the habits that we were so Mach dedicated upon and everything one of those things can be something that can be transformed in the slowest of manners and also dramatically at certain cases as well but at the end of the day it is all about the changes that we are facing and also experiencing.

Changes can be very much easy for us to be going through as well and also it can be quite painful at times but in the end it is all about just moving forward because their can be a lot of things that we use to believe in so hard in the past that we made our personality based upon that but eventually we realised that it was not worth it and we have to let it go for some or the other reason and once that happens it definitely is not an easy thing to do but it can actually be the best thing to be done.

One of the values that I was very dedicated towards believing in the past is obviously going to be about seeking the validation from other people which was just to be getting accepted from people around me and having their approval for whatever I do and this was something that was so deeply coded within my own self that I used to be implementing it in almost every single situation that I was a part of.

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Every single thing that I do along with the things that I achieve or even I want to do or even a decision that I have to make everything Al one of them wanted to have and acknowledgement from someone to be actually doing it and that was something that I actually used to believe in very much and all of this actually made me go away from my own self what a lot and it was a very late realisation for me.

The only thing that I used to think about is to be just having a kind of approval from people around me so that I could actually do the particular thing without any kind of second third but it was actually undermined my own confidence and something that was just basically not the right thing to be done but it was obviously think that I was involved in for a really long period of time.

The time it took for me to realise that this was something that I was doing just for the sake of doing it and it really had no good amount of impact on me or any kind of positive that it had to offer was something that was really along wait but after the point of time that I realised it was actually something that suddenly raised so many questions within my own self about this particular habit that I was carrying on for so long.

I was involved in a loop that was kind of just doing the things that people are going to appreciate, or it is going to be something the people are going to like me for, apart from the things that I would actually enjoy doing, and that was a really big thing that hurt me quite a lot. For my all lif,e have triedry to do the things that people are going to appreciate me for, which was absolutely not going to be a great thing to be doing,e because in the end, it is going to be me who is going to be the one who matters, and in all aspect,s I was the one who was getting invisible.

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After that point of time I started to make sure that I am value in my own self a lot more and trying to do the things that are going to be actually liked by my ownself and doing only the things that I want to do rather than looking forward what people are going to appreciate me for and it was such a relief after I actually started to implement it because I started to become more fullfiled and satisfied as well along with the amount of motivation that I had in really was immense in comparison to what I used to have and all of those things really added up quit nicely and I realise that I was doing an thing so wrong that it made me Rob my own self.

It is really a very big change that I managed to get into my own self because if I have any kind of opportunity to give a particular advise to my own younger self then I would definitely say that seeking these kind of validation from other people around me what's definitely not going to be a great thing to be done and focusing on my own self and doing nothing that I want tu du is going to be the best thing to be done and that is the only thing that is going to be keeping my own value be worthy forever.

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