Regret Isn’t Useless—It’s a Map to Who We Want to Be
There are a lot of things that happened in our life it's don't go according to the plan that we wanted them to go. Still, it is something which does up with the emotion which we know as a regret and that is something which we do think about quite a lot and just keep on wondering about if the situation was different than what it turned out to be and this is something which we spend a lot of time thinking about. It is something that makes the field a lot of work on many occasions as well.
There are a lot of people who do believe that anytime that is involved in regretting about something is something that is a waste of a time because there is no productivity that can be achieved for anything that can be taken out of doing regret about something because it is never going to be letting you reach or have anything out of that which is simply wasting time which could have been implemented in a much better way to improve our self and also rectify the mistakes that we meet in our previous attempt.
But is it the case as regret is something which is completely a waste of time where as it is something that might not be the actual thing because they can be a lot of learnings that we can be taking out while regretting about something because we feel regret about something only when it was something that we wanted to achieve very badly or it was something that we wanted to make happen in the way we plan it to be and that was through a lot of dedication from our side and one that does not happen the way we wanted it to be it comes out as a very big red. In that moment get the very big learning lessons that are going to be very much necessary to make it matter in terms of the things that we have to be improving, which we can be implementing later on and achieving the goal that we initially wanted to.
The feeling of regret itself is tied to the Fab that we are judging ourselves for not been able to do what we wanted to do and it is something that can be making us go back in a very spiral way of thoughts which is going to be a thing that will be very much strongly getting printed in our brain and mindset and that can be quite helpful at times as well because it can make us lead into the path that can fill up with motivation that we might have never had.
Failures can fill us up with a lot of things which can be one of the greatest lessons that we can learn to improve our self and also identify the things that we did wrong which is hard to come by and with regret we also get a lot of sent about the perspective that is needed to pursue the things that we are willing to achieve and that is what makes it allot more happening and lot more meaningful other same time rather than aimlessly wandering around.
Regret is something that is our signal that comes from within that is a very meaningful way of saying that we could have done better and things might have been a lot more different and that is something when we realise that we can do it and the small things that lead us to this particular situation that we are in right now is something that we can change with a few minor tweaks.
There are a lot of things that we can extract out of regret itself and it is not something that is a waste of time because it can be even of the powerful teachers that can exist in our life and make us a lot more better in many ways which is something that we need to understand and also implement the learning that we extracted out of it. After all, it is something that we can make a lot of use out of and not thinking about it as something that is the sign of weakness or something.
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