Pretending to Be Fine Was My Default — Until My Body Said 'No More'

In our lives we are often focused on been much more in terms of looking normal even when we are not so normal and this has been so much normalise that we always tried to be happy or at least look like we are so glad in every situation and this is something which is very much promoted as well because people call other people who are doing this kind of things to be much stronger as well as also quite positive in their lives and that was something which becomes to be a habit among people which they try to generate over other situations as well.

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Everyone is always going to be looking at you and will say that they are fine and also try to be very much smooth even in the most 10 situations as well as also always give a lot of effort to be making the awkwardness go away with so much of is that it is sometimes looking to be too good to be true. It is that as well because such people are the ones who are always the that who become because of the way our society is built, as these people are the ones who are always looked at as the ones who are going to be up regardless of the situation.

Apart from that there is also a mind said that many people have developed because of the society as well is the fact that we have to be staying positive regardless of the situation and this has been something which has always made people show the emotions in such a manner which is not true and that is why we always tried to be performing being happy in all situations even when there is something completely else that we are experiencing in that is something which we have developed over the years within our self.

I have also grown up in an environment where emotions were something that were actually very much dramatic and if they are positive they are completely very positive and are celebrated to a very big extent but at the same time if they happen to be something else then they are also surprised white a lot and that is why there is only one shot of emotion that gets promoted much more and that is very much welcome to be displayed as well which has made people much more acting like they are happy and always showcasing the positive emotions from their end even if their completely exhausted and may be heard as well.

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The habit of completely swallowing our pain and discomfort has become so normal that it is kind of a necessity in the modern world as everyone is out there doing the same thing and is always going to be portraying their best version in front of everyone else even if they are feeling something completely different and this is something this is making people struggle with a lot because they are constantly under the pressure of showcasing something that is not the real thing.

This is something that we all are involved in some way or the other and days also something that we should be getting away from and for me it was something that was a very hard experience because I was dealing quite a lot heavily in terms of managing my emotions and it took me quite along time to realise that this was something that was harming me quite a lot which is why I have to be getting through it and let it go in some way.

I understood the fact that this is something that is kind of a toxic positive that was pushing me to be happy at all the times and also portray opposite image of mine regardless of whatever the situation is and there is something that I should be getting rid of because staying truth to my self and also making people realise the emotions that I am feeling is very important as it can actually be a very big source of getting misunderstood and also struggling with our self because of suppressing the emotions that we have.

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One of the biggest fears that people have because of which they do these kind of things is the fact that they are very much scared about showcasing their true side to other people as it can make them quite vulnerable to other people as they are going to be exposing themselves in the most truest of senses but in reality it is also very much necessary to be done in terms of getting to no people and also making it something that is going to be a very normal activity rather than something that is going to be completely different than that.

There is a very strong sense of credibility and also confidence in ourselves when we are showcasing our true side to other people as it is not going to be something that is fabricated or something that we are acting to be but it is the real side of us and letting people know what we are rather than showing them a version that we are not and this is a very big strength to have.

It is a long journey to be stopping to perform been happy and showcase the real side of mine to other people as it is something that is still been developed within myself and it is a decision that I am very much proud of for taking because it has let me achieve a lot of freedom from many kind of things which was suppressing me in a very negative fashion which has allowed me to show case my real side to the world without any kind of factor that is going to be holding me back.

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