Not Sorry for Breaking This Rule: The Case Against Constant Politeness

There are a lot of rules that we are surrounded with in our life and they are actually meant to be maintaining a lot of order that we are going to be surrounded with in our life which is actually going to be keeping a safe and protecting us in a very different manner which is also going to be a very big reason to ensure that everything is fair for every single person along with the fact that there are going to be equal kind of opportunities for everyone. Rules are obviously something that are going to need to be changed over time because there are different factors that were involved back in the day when that rule was actually made, but now there can be a lot of changes that may make those old rules irrelevant to the present.

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Similarly there are a lot of invisible rules that we are surrounded with usual which is something that is not written anywhere but is obviously something that we try to follow in our life in one way or the other which is my it becomes something that is going to be needed to be followed by us even though it is something that not get somewhere written officially but definitely followed universally. And at the same time, there are a lot of rules that definitely don't make sense to us, and some of them are obviously going to be the ones that we break very frequently, a nd among them, there can be a certain kind of rule that we break intentionally and don't even regret.

One such rule that doesn't make me regret in anyway whenever I break it is definitely going to be the fact that the expectation to be polite at every single moment because it is obviously something that can be having a lot of actors involved in it as there can be many such situations when politeness should actually be considered but at the same time there can also be a lot of such situations when politeness can be an option but at the same time honesty might become really good option to be pig in the long term even if it can cause some issues in the short term.

Rules however I just made for the fat that they are going to be making everything much more safer and also going to be a reason that everything is going to be equal for every single person along with the fact that social order is also going to be maintained because of the rules that have been put in place along with the fact that it is also going to be making sure that many misunderstanding are not going to be even existing and we also see a lot of such cultural practices which are also going to have their own set of rules within themselves which is something that is also followed just because of the cultural sake.

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Jarur that I definitely don't recreate breaking every single time whenever it is that kind of situation is obviously going to be not be polite at all time because it is always something that we are expected to be doing because sense our young age we have been told that we should be respected in the feelings of every single person and we must be polite in any that where involved in what is the same time we do not portrait the real and honest reality in many situations just because we are winning to be polite in that situation which might not be the really best option to be picked in such a situation.

There are many such situations when we are actually picking up the sugar coated option to be polite in that particular movement or other than picking the honest reality which actually can be very much helpful to be maintaining peace in that situation or something that can actually be when much helpful in diffusing a stressful circumstance but at the same time in the honest response that can actually be involved in those situations can actually be hurtful to choose in the short term but at the same time they can be the actual things that are going to be pig in the later time.

One of the biggest reasons why I break this rule very often is because politeness is often going to be something that we all are promoting but at the same time that is going to be making something that is not really what we are thinking because we can actually be pretend to be polite in that situation just be making the other person feel comfortable but at the same time as we are not very much feeling the same way and have very massive disagreement it can actually be very much visible in our action which is my it is something that I try to avoid and stay with whatever I feel and that is my I try to be tonight and try to just be truth even if it may cost politeness in any situation.

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I also really feel the fact that honesty can actually be the best thing to be tried in every single situation and if it is going to be not having the similarities with politeness then we should be dropping politeness and choosing honestly over it because it is always going to be the best thing that anyone can have in the long run even if they are going to be feeling better if we provide them with any sugar coated response but in the long run it is what is going to help in them and the same time it is also going to be built in a lot of Trust between people as we have been honest regardless of however it sounds to them at that point of time.

Similarly, there are a lot of different rules that are actually something that we break on a very frequent basis without having any kind of regret, just because it is obviously going to be connected with the thought process that we have, and this was one such rule that I definitely break when I frequently do so and also don't have any kind of regret.

However not every rule that we are having in our life is meant to be broken and at the same time they can actually have many words consequences that well which we should be aware of and very much thought for about them as well because there are obviously a lot of rules that can be bent and at the same time which will also be aware of the fact that they are present in the first place just be keeping a safe and also maintaining order.

In the end it is obviously going to be always be honesty over anything and even if it is politeness I will always choose honesty and all times because they have been a lot of such moments when I actually priority politeness over many other things and that has definitely made me feel a lot more regret and that is my actually now feel let honesty is obviously going to be the best option to be picked and stay authentic.

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