How We Forget That Life Is All About Moments—Until It’s Too Late
There are a lot of things in our life which are going to be having to be something that we can come across but at the same time there are a lot of such things which we might not even pay much attention to and just over look very easily and it is not something that is a fault of ours. It is quite easy to get lost in the period that we happened to have because it has a lot of days weeks month as well as the eliminated amount of years make it something quite big and it can be quite easy to miss a lot of things in this particular aspect because we do get much more involved in making the future of ours in a much better way and planning that is going to be something that we involve most of all time with.
We we spend our time is quite different. Still, the same time there are a lot of similarities between the way people generally spend their time and their can be a lot of things that can be noted such as thinking about the nostalgic moment that happened to be the memories that we had in terms of the amazing moments that we enjoy at better the same time there are a lot of things that we regrets as well. Thinking about the past or future is something that is not the life that we are living, but it is more about the present moments that are happening right now, and that is what makes life the way it is, rather than the thoughts that shape life in our head.
From the childhood itself there is a mind set that is been imposed on us and we are always told to be just looking at the bigger picture and thinking about what is about to come and giving in efforts for the bigger gold rather than thinking about what is happening right now and trying to enjoy the moments. Eventually, we end up giving in efforts and just thinking about how we can secure a good future and do the things that are necessary to provide for our family, and also secure a very healthy retirement plan as well. These things that I influence as so much that we imagine this to be something that is a target of our life, and we want to make that happen at any cost.
In between these big targets and the efforts that we give to accomplish them, there are a lot of small moments that often get overlooked, and we don't even pay attention to them, but there are a lot of these tiny moments between all of this. There can be many a time is when we have felt low and just try to comfort our ownself in which were manner possible as well as their a lot of such moments when we had fun without friends and also when we cry in solitude after not been able to do what we wanted to do and there are a lot of these kind of moments that we come across as well.
The sense of falling behind from the bigger picture is too strong in our head then we don't even realise that there are a lot of other things that are happening around us and these small moments are one of the ones which can make us much happier as soon as we can find peace in the present itself rather than thinking much about the future as well as also regretting about what we did wrong in the past because ultimately the present moment is the most important one. After all, it is all that we have rather than what we had or something that we might have.
Every single moment that we come across in our life is something that has its value and can play a very important role in making our relationships better, as well as human building our memories in a way that nothing else can ever do. This is also very big reason why we often feel very nostalgic about thinking of the old memories and that is also a moment that we didn't care much about when it was happening rather than when it has spent a lot of time after that it happened we try to remember it and get some comfort from it. Every sad or happy moment that we had in our life is something that we often recall later in our life, but and the same time, we don't value them much when they are happening.
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Even the human connection is that we make around us which is extremely important and necessary in this modern world to be very much social with each other because we can't be surviving without social connections and that is what is also going to be extremely important as movement can be playing a very big role in building connections with other people because the small moments which is going to be just like an inside joke that we cracked with our friend or even a small hug when we were leaving for our homes after a very well spend day small moments can also share a lot of emotion among people and can many amazing connections among people.
Bean present in the real moment is necessary because we often are somewhere else in our mind rather than what is happening with us in the present because we need to be immers in ourself in the present and just looking around us whatever is happening rather than thinking about something else completely and just giving that bit of attention to the present is going to be unlocking a lot of the small moment that are going to be something that we can easily miss because of the distracted mind that we are carrying.
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The fact that it does not even require any effort to create some meaningful moment is something that we also need to realize because it can be created and anytime and anywhere we only just need to be focusing a little bit on whatever is happening and not get distracted because of other factors just try to remain in the present and just be spontaneous and that is what is going to create the best moments that we can ever have in our life which is also going to be making us a lot more happier than the things that we open chase to make ourself happy.
It is only coming down to this small moments that are going to be making a extremely happy at our heart because we can be making whatever number that we want in our bank accounts and try to chase that dream thing that we want to achieve what is the same time it is only going to be the thrill that we had while we were on our first ever so trip or one of the best dates that we went on with our partner and these kind of small moments are going to be giving us enormous amount of joy and collecting moments is something that we need to be focusing upon rather than collecting the things that we chase because at the end...
Life is all about moments.
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Totally! We get so focused on planning the next race we forget to enjoy the victory lap sometimes! 🐴🏆
That's very well put together, thanks for stopping by
Me conmovió mucho tu reflexión. Es cierto que muchas veces estamos tan enfocados en "llegar" a algún lugar, que nos perdemos el regalo del ahora. Al final, son esos momentos pequeños y sinceros, una risa, un abrazo, una conversación honesta, los que realmente se quedan en el alma. Gracias por recordarnos lo esencial.