Comparison: The Instinct That Can Build or Break You
Throughout our life one of the most common thing that is going to be happening from our side and his also a certain kind of Instinct is about comparison for sure because it is something that comes absolutely naturally towards as we are always going to be measuring our ownself in terms of what other people are doing in the same regard and that is something which comes very much from our within because we want to be notice in the things that are different within ask and other people which is going to be one of the biggest thing that can be determining who is ahead and who is behind.
Every single thing that is there in our society is pointed towards comparison in a very prominent fashion because right from our childhood we are based on our grades and that is what is going to be deciding what is going to be the ranking of everything else student in that particular class that is going to be a very fundamental aspect of comparison and their can be found in norms amount of examples throughout our life which is going to be very much easily pointing out why comparison is really a thing.
The impact that comparison can have upon us is quite Complex because for some people it may be something that can actually be pushing them to be even better and motivate them to become something that is going to be much better version of themselves but at the same time it can also be a reason which is going to be filling people up with a lot of self doubt and that is what is going to be really negative aspect for them.
There can be a lot of reasons What makes us compare our own self to other people but one of the fundamental things that we have had from even the time that we have started to exist as well is just because we are always looking ahead on what other people are doing because what is going to be giving us a bit of idea to be looking forward towards attaining the skills that are actually working which is only going to be coming if we are comparing ourself with other people and that is when we are going to be noticed in the thing that we are lacking behind.
There have been a lot of social conditioning which can be very much responsible for all of this because we are always looked upon in such a manner that we have to be better than someone else to be a really good candidate in which were aspect we are competing in as well as the social media is also something to blame because it has made everything in the form of metrics which is very easily visible and everyone is chasing to beat those metrics and that is simply glamorising a lot of things in such a manner which is going to be making people compare each other.
There are a lot of negative aspects attached with the habit of comparison which is something that we should be paying attention to because it can very easily be a reason why our self confidence can take a massive blow because of constant comparison we can have a kind of feeling that we are falling behind and that is something which is not even true because everyone has their own Pace and just because of the sake of comparison we are noticing that there is a huge difference and we need to catch up and that is going to be causing unnecessary.
Most of the times what it does is actually distract us from our own plan and the plant that we were supposed to be following and making our moves in which is something that we should be very much careful about because if we get distracted it is actually going to be very harmful for us because we should never be forgetting our own goals and just because someone else is doing something we should never be copying them and even think about comparing ourself with them.
However not every single time when comparison is done is going to be very much negative in its fashion because there can be a lot of positive aspects attached with the habit of comparison is well because if we can be looking at it in a very healthy manner then it is obviously going to be a very big source of motivation that we can be using to be putting in even more effort and also feeling happy for the other person as well and all of this is actually going to be creating a very healthy and positive environment.
Actually it is all about our own perspective if we are having a thought process of comparing with other people and just looking at what they are doing different then US then it can actually be very much helpful but at the same time if we are comparing just for the sake of looking what other people are not able to do which wearable to do and just flex based on that then it is actually a very bad kind of thought process that we are having which is why we are comparing with other people and that is something which we should be very much thoughtful about.
Practicing healthy forms of comparison can definitely be a really good thing to be involved in within our life because comparison is obviously a very natural thing that every single human being is going to be doing in a very natural fashion which is something that we should be understanding but at the same time you should actually just look only on the positives that are attached with it.
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