Broken, Not Defective: Rethinking Our Obsession With Fixing
There is a very normal sense of belief within ourself that if something is not working the way the supposed to we try to fix it and anything that seems to be broken we are always looking forward towards the solution that we can implement to get it fixed and this is something which happens in every single aspect that we get ourselves involved in which can be relationship that means to ask quite a lot or even a small thing that we are not able to get them properly and it can be anything but it surely seems to be something that needs to be done is what seems to us.
But life definitely has a way of teaching things to us and after a particular point of time all of us definitely realise that not all broken things are going to be required to be fixed and that is something which everyone gets to realise at one or the other point in the life for sure because we are always so obsessive about repairing things that we don't really realise that certain things are beyond repair and while trying to repair them we are losing ourself in the process.
There are a lot of things that we come across in our life that are actually needed to be left just the way they are and accepting them for whatever they are and that is always going to be the most productive decision to be taken because of a lot of things but to ensure that we are not getting a cells drug into something which is going to cause us more harm and also leaving that thing or person or whatever that situation is in complete peace as well.
It is a particular mentality that we all develop right from our childhood itself when we are always looking forward towards repairing something whenever we seeing to see anything that is broken and that simply becomes to be a particular habit that we grow with as we are learning new things just fun and that is what we are always trying to implement in every single situation which is to try to fix that.
Every single thing that we are involved in let it be the emotions of our own self or even if someone else needs help in every single one of those circumstances we are looking forward towards trying to fix that particular thing and it is something that is definitely going to be requiring us to do one or the other thing and in most of the occasions it is definitely going to be the best option to be pig as things need to be given another chance and try to make them good just like they used to be.
But in certain special situations with definitely need to realise that it is something that is very much better if they are left broken as they are and that is something which we need to understand as well because there are certain things which should not be changed and needs to be kept just the way that they are because they are actually going to be much more problem at it not just to us can order to get them back to be better but to them as well. After all, they are stretching beyond what they are capable of, which makes the whole situation much more difficult.
This is a particular thing that happens in many aspects which can be the human bonds which we have with other people or even a particular habit that we want to develop or even particular job that we were trying to get ourselves applied for sense many times they are always many indications that it is going to be showing us that it is best to be left alone and not disturbed in any other way because it is the best thing that can be done to them rather than giving it more attempts towards trying to fix it or getting it done in one or the other way which is actually making the situation even worse.
There are a lot of things that we need to actually understand because not every flower that we are not a single in things is going to be a particular defect which needs to be fixed or every single thing that is going to be looked at as been a particular thing that needs to be given little bit of attention to which can actually be qualifying as a particular weakness which we need to fix and that is difference in perspective which we need to develop as well.
The amount of peace that there is existing to just have that particular habit and mindset within our own self to just leave the broken things as they are his something that we should be trying to explore because most of the times we are involved in that process of trying to give in efforts to get that thing back up in the exact state it used to be which is actually something that we are giving in efforts just in vain.
Find me on :
| 3Speak | InLeo | DTube |
|---|
- THIS IS COMPLETELY ORIGINAL CONTENT AND NO USAGE OF AI HAS BEEN DONE FOR THE CREATION OF THIS POST
- I used GRAMMARLY to rectify and fine-tune the post
- ALL THE IMAGES USED ARE ORIGINAL, AND IF NOT, THE SOURCE IS SPECIFIED UNDER THE RESPECTIVE IMAGE
Cheers!
Sayu
Posted Using INLEO