The Paradox of Presence: Valuing Only What Absence Reveals

Today's topic is that we don't value the things that come to us easily or that are always present with us. The worst thing is that sometimes we get the biggest lesson in life when something or someone is completely normal to us, or you can say that its presence was not that important to us, and if it leaves us later, we face a lot of problems. This is also a thing. Now, suppose we get a phone before time. We got a laptop, which should have been acquired after the purchase, but we got it before the advertisement, and we didn't appreciate it because we think we can easily acquire all these things. But when that item is taken away from us, or when it gets damaged, broken, and goes away from us, we understand its value. It's these small things that are so important to understand—their value.

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Human nature is strange. We never appreciate the things we've received. We're never happy about them. We're always sad about things we don't have. For example, if we get a phone, we're not happy about it; we're sad that we got an iPhone, but instead, we're sad that we got a normal phone. This is a very human trait that exists within everyone, and no one can justify it. Because no one is ever satisfied with anything. For example, if you own a bicycle, you'll expect a bike. If you own a bike, you'll expect a car. If you have work, you'll expect more luxury. The more you get, the more you expect it. You'll expect more than you thought you got. Therefore, humans can never be happy with anything.

We too are never satisfied with anything, or even the presence that exists for us. We ignore them because we feel that their presence is not important in our lives. But when they leave, their physical presence is gone. Then we realize that they were very important to us, and we used to talk to them in small conversations earlier. We used to share small things. They valued our time. But we didn't take them seriously. That's why we didn't understand. But listen, their physical presence is less, or they have moved on to someone else. Something else is going on. We have to learn that no matter who someone is, we should always learn to appreciate them. Be happy with whatever you have, because life is too short, and if you don't find happiness in things, you will always be complaining.

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Life has definitely taught us one thing: nothing is ever permanent. But we should also understand that nothing in life is permanent, but for as long as it lasts, spend quality time with those people. Show them appreciation. Express yourself, and don't take time lightly, because if one day passes, there will never be another day. So, live each day well, because tomorrow is not guaranteed. But today's competition certainly offers opportunities, and we rarely get these opportunities because life is so uncertain. So, enjoy each day happily. If you have someone in your life today who cares for you, who listens to you and tries to understand you, then appreciate them, recognizing their importance, rather than ignoring their messages. Continue ignoring them. Appreciation isn't a complete, complicated state, but that honest message—from a genius—saying thank you is incredibly important in your way of expressing it.

And if someone has gone away, then it is not so necessary to blame yourself. You should accept their relationship and keep moving forward because anything, relationship or friendship, has to end one day or the other because nothing is permanent in our life. We do not know some things, and this is what teaches us that some people come along to walk with us. Some people are valuable for giving direction to both of us, so they did it right. In our lives, just understand this much: give time to everyone. Give value to understanding everyone because it is not necessary for every heart to go. Some people can stay with you, but if they are going, then you should not stay and never decorate anything. Always behave with gratitude because we are humans.

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