The Golden Days of Childhood We All Miss

The topic is childhood, a child is very special for us. I still remember that we used to have a lot of fun in our childhood. I used to have a lot of fun with my brother. We have to learn a lot of things. We make a lot of conditions. We have a lot of fun with our brothers and sisters. We get scolded a lot by our parents. But after growing up, I miss a lot of things. Going to grandmother's house, staying with my cousins there, having fun, meeting my sworn-in partner in a festival, meeting my sworn-in partner in a wedding function, but nowadays, everyone is busy. Everyone has grown up. Everyone has a job, when they got married, they are now busy. Everyone has become busy in their own lives. Somewhere, that fun, that meeting, that talking to each other. Sharing each other's secrets every day and every time has stopped. Everything that is there in our lives.

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My brother is busy with his college. I am busy with my studies. All my cousins have got jobs. No one from Bangalore can meet Hyderabad on Rakhi. We don't enjoy festivals but even today whenever we meet, we laugh a lot remembering our old things. She was naughty in childhood. She used to mix food cooked by grandmother and pull each other's legs, laugh at someone who hit someone, play games like Ludo, get excited when they lose and make fun of the other person when they win. I miss all those things a lot.

I am from Bihar and there you are as innocent as mud. They used to enjoy dipping each other in mud. But these days all those things are just memories. I miss them. Now I just wait for someone's wedding so that we can all meet there. I wish there is a family function where it is important for everyone to come, I wish someone is building a house. If I can meet them at their Grah Pravesh, I miss all these things a lot.

Having fun with my maternal grandparents, going to my maternal grandmother's house, having fun with my grandmother, asking money from her and eating crispy chips, I remember the parties we used to have after classes with my brothers and sisters. We used to have parties in our childhood by saving some ₹10, some ₹20.

Earlier we used to go to the village on Chhath Puja to celebrate it together but nowadays we all have become very busy. We are not able to go even for that. Everyone has built separate houses. Some are in Delhi, some are in Kolkata, some are in Jamshedpur, some are in Hyderabad. We miss all these things if we could celebrate Diwali together. When we used to meet, many relatives used to come. We used to be very happy that we would get money. We would get new clothes. We used to be very happy about it. We used to be very excited that we would get new clothes. We would meet our brothers and sisters. We would have a lot of fun.

We are going to our grandmother's house because every child has most of the memories from their grandmother's house, so we have captured those memories in some photos. Some were very fat in childhood. Some were very naughty and today when we meet each other, we see all those photos, we tease each other a lot. Those old memories are refreshed. Some start crying while remembering them, but we will always remember those things. We will get a lot of happiness by remembering them. Whenever we remember them, going to school together, coming back from school together with our brothers and sisters. Children cry a lot on the first day. But even when we leave school, we cry a lot because those school memories are nothing like school.

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School memories, school campus, school friends, friendship like school is not found anywhere else. Support of brothers and sisters is there. If someone troubles you, then all your siblings come to you and ask who troubled my sister and did this? All these things are always remembered. My eyes get wet remembering everyone and all these things.

Childhood is very good for some people. But for some, it is traumatizing. Maybe they don't get the love of grandparents. Maybe they don't get the love of parents after marriage. Maybe they don't know the love of siblings. Maybe they have never been happy about anything. Maybe someone doesn't get anything at all. We always tell our parents that I want this. I want this. Why don't you give me this. But we don't think that whatever we have got, maybe someone else didn't get that thing in childhood. Maybe they didn't get new clothes. Maybe they didn't get a doll in the festival. Maybe they don't even know their siblings. Without recognizing them, maybe they don't even have a house to live in, or food to eat, for some people their life goes very well but for some people it gets traumatizing too.

I would like to say to them that they are trying to give their children the best childhood possible. Take them on a trip, introduce them to their own village. Tell them about their past. Take them to your village on every festival. Tell them that this is what happens in our village so that they never get separated from their village. Give them everything they need, fulfill some special needs. Give them some new clothes. Do as much as you can for them so that they don't get bored remembering all these things but instead they are happy like I am. Remembering the things of my village, the things about my siblings, the new clothes, the money, the fun, the parties, all the things that we did, I and my brother get happy, it is very different, so I would just like to say to every parent that give their children a happy childhood so that they can become very successful in the future. They should always be happy in the future after knowing that childhood, always keep laughing. Always keep remembering both of them.

JAI SHREE RAM

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