[LOH-284] My Head Can Defend Me, But My Mouth Will Betray Me Every Time -All I Can Do is Run And Cry
I can't remember the time that I heard someone talk bad about me. I heard things that I feel like it was about me. I maybe just overthinking about it or maybe it is really just about me but that time, when I heard it, I can't help but feel embarassed coz I was hit with it, tinamaan, ganern. I felt nothing but embarassment and when I heard it.
I saw my crush nearby and I thought, what if its really is about me? Then he already knows? That time, the only thing I can do was to run, I didn't really run though but I walk real fast. I don't want everyone to think that I got hit with what they're talking about which I am also really not sure if it is really about me
Now, for this topic: You are at a party, and someone is saying derogatory remarks (or negative things) about you. How would you deal with it, or what would you do
I would definitely run too. You see, when I get too emotional or when I get really mad, my body just start to shake and even though I have a lot of thought running in my head -things I want to say, but my head is too messy that I don't know how to put them into words. I will surely stutter.
I might not just run and just ignore it too. Even if I want to say things as I also want to you know, get back to those kind of people, but my mouth and mind has issues being together they might just sabotage each other, lol.
I just can't understand myself, why in my head, I can clearly say what I want to say without stuttering but if I will finally say it to their face, words just won't come out. Like I want to defend myself and point out something too but, hahhh, my mouth is the problem. I hate that part of me seriously.
So, yes, I might not be able to do anything right at that moment. Dealing it would be hard and seriously, I might even cry. Yes, I cry when I'm mad because of helplessness. You know the feeling that you want to defend yourself and say your piece there but CAN'T. It's so frustrating y'all.
But well, I might think about the bad thing they said about me for some time, but it is also a good thing that I am a very forgetful person. Just give me a month or two, I will forget all about it. But, I will pray that karma will hit them. That's all I can do aside from running and ignoring.
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What goes around always comes back around sis :>
Yessss, yan talaga yoon ✨
Whenever I think about someone talking shit about someone else, all I can think of is that how sad and boring their life must be that they have to talk bad about me? hahah. I know it's easy to say it and hard to do, but at some point you will stop taking them personally and learn to ignore and maybe remove them from your life. What you're feeling is very valid though and normal. It's good that you're writing about this and processing it.
I think what I'm just trying to say is that it will get better. And I also believe in karma... it will backfire on them at some point. :D
Its sad coz its really happening in real life and they do it as if they earn money in it, like, they do it with all their heart haha. I actually learn to just ignore them now coz that's all I can do. And removing them in iur life is definitely the best thing to do here. I'll choose peaceful life than let them be part of my life.
Karma won't hit them instantly but it will, slowly but surely. 💃
I hope you get the strength to worry less about negative people... Thanks for sharing.
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I'm stronger than them now haha. But luckily, because I don't really have much friend now, my life is in peace and I like it.
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eres una persona muy honesta y transparente al reconocer que tu boca a veces te traiciona en los momentos de mayor tension pero esa vulnerabilidad es lo que hace que tu contenido sea tan real y conecte con los demas
you are a very honest and transparent person by recognizing that your mouth sometimes betrays you in moments of greatest tension but that vulnerability is what makes your content so real and connects with others
Yeah, it sucks but being like that is much better. At least I can avoid all the drama. Lol
Your mouth is saving you from spouting things you might regret later, hehe. But I feel you, 'coz I'm the same. I can talk in my head, but my mouth doesn't cooperate, which I think is really a good thing. We won't say things on the spur of the moment.😊
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Right, that's a good thing for us. And at least diba, we can just ignore them and remove them completely in our life. Less drama and mas easy lol
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