Growth Is Beautiful, Even When It’s Silent

To be honest, I didn’t realize I was growing until I looked back at how I used to think and behave a few years ago. Sometimes growth doesn’t announce itself. It doesn’t come with a loud voice or fireworks. It just shows in how you react to situations that used to break you before.

There was a day recently that made me sit and think, “Wow, I’ve really grown.” It was during a disagreement with someone close to me. In the past, I would have raised my voice, taken everything too personal, or even cry and get hurt deeply. But this time, I was just calm. I listened more than I talked. I responded with understanding instead of anger. Even me I was surprised at myself. That was when I knew I’ve grown emotionally.

Another way I’ve grown is mentally. I used to doubt myself a lot, always afraid to try new things or go after what I really want. But this year, something changed. I’ve been applying for opportunities I would normally shy away from. I started learning new things online. I even created a plan for something I want to start as a side hustle. I now see challenges as ways to improve myself, not something to fear.

Also, I noticed I don’t seek validation like before. Before, I always wanted people to notice my efforts or praise me before I feel good about myself. Now, I just do what I know is right and I’m okay even if nobody claps for me. That mindset alone brought me so much peace. It’s like I stopped expecting too much from people and started focusing more on myself.

Growth has also taught me how to set boundaries. I used to say “yes” to everything and everyone even when I’m tired or not interested. But now, I can say “no” without feeling guilty. I’ve learned that protecting my peace is very important, and not everyone deserves access to me all the time.

These are not things that happened overnight. It’s a slow process. But I’m grateful for it. I may not be where I want to be yet, but I am definitely not where I used to be.

So yes, growth is beautiful. Sometimes it’s not even visible to others, but you know deep inside you’ve changed in a good way. And that alone is worth celebrating.

Thanks for stopping by and reading my post

With Love🧡❤️💜

Hamidu Yetunde

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