Mohabbat, Lehjay Aur Insaan Ki Asal Soorat

Mohabbat, Lehjay Aur Insaan Ki Asal Soorat

Kia haal dosto? Budh ka din bhi dekhte hi dekhte apni manzil tak pohnch gaya. Zindagi waqai rukti nahi. Har din apna hissa lekar chala jata hai aur hum samajhte rehte hain ke abhi to bohat waqt baqi hai.

Aj aik baat ne bohat dair tak sochne par majboor kiya. Zaroori nahi ke time pass sirf chand din ka ho. Kuch log aik saal, do saal, hatta ke chaar paanch saal tak kisi ki zindagi mein is hunar se rehte hain ke saamne wale ko har lamha sachcha lagta hai. Bharosa hi woh cheez hai jo insaan ko andha kar deta hai. Aur jab sach saamne aata hai to dhoka waqt se nahi, apni khud ki yaqeen se lagta hai.

Mujhe aksar sab se zyada khauf kisi ki khamoshi se nahi, maanoos lehjon ke badal jane se aata hai. Kuch awazein aadat ban jati hain. Phir aik din wahi lehja ajnabi aur talkh ho jaye to mehsoos hota hai jaise ghar ka koi darwaza achanak band ho gaya ho. Insaan alfaaz nahi, lehje yaad rakhta hai.

Phir dil ko yeh baat tasalli deti hai ke rizq ka faisla insaan nahi karta. Allah hi hai jo kisi ke liye wusat karta hai aur kisi ke liye aazmaish. Is liye doosron ki daulat dekh kar mayoos hone ke bajaye apni mehnat aur dua ka daman mazboot pakarna chahiye. Jis rizq mein barkat ho, wahi asal amiri hai.

Aj kal Musafir Cafe dekh raha hoon. Doosri episode dekh kar aik baat dil mein utar gayi ke mohabbat waqai duniya ka sab se nasha dene wala ehsaas hai. Jab insaan sachchi muhabbat mein hota hai to chhoti chhoti cheezen bhi khoobsurat lagne lagti hain. Lekin mohabbat sirf mil jana hi kaafi nahi. Us ki hifazat, us ki qadr aur us ke liye waqt nikalna bhi utna hi zaroori hai. Har khoobsurat rishta tawajjoh maangta hai.

Kuch alfaaz bhi ajeeb hote hain. Jab koi kehta hai...

"Mujhe tumhari zarurat hai..."
"Mujhe tumhari yaad aa rahi hai..."
"Mere paas raho..."

To in jumlon ka jawab kabhi takabbur se nahi dena chahiye. Yeh alfaaz zaban se us waqt nikalte hain jab dil bohat der tak apni jang haar chuka hota hai. Kabhi kabhi aik narm jawab us dil ko bacha leta hai jo tootne ke bilkul qareeb hota hai. Reham aur narmi kabhi zaya nahi jate.

Aur phir baat insaan ki asal soorat tak aa jati hai. Badsoorati sirf chehre ki nahi hoti. Chehre ki kami to aaina dikha deta hai, magar kirdar ki badsoorati ko log aksar jhoot ke makeup se chhupane ki koshish karte hain. Haqeeqat yeh hai ke khoobsurat chehra chand saal ka mehmaan hota hai, lekin khoobsurat akhlaq umr bhar yaad rehta hai.

Zindagi mein agar kabhi mauqa mile to un logon ka bhi shukriya ada zaroor kijiye jinhon ne apne rawaiye se aap ko badalne par majboor kiya. Kuch log muhabbat de kar sabaq sikhate hain aur kuch log takleef de kar. Dono hi insaan ko pehle se behtar bana dete hain. Kabhi kabhi sab se achha ustad woh hota hai jis ne humein sirf yeh sikha diya ke humein us jaisa nahi banna.

Aaj ki guftagu ko isi khayal par khatam karta hoon...

"Zindagi mein har mulaqat rehmat nahi hoti, lekin har mulaqat aik sabaq zaroor hoti hai. Samajhdar wohi hai jo takleef se bhi apna kirdar nikhaar le, na ke apna dil sakht kar le."