Gunah, Ehsaas Aur Baap Ki Khamosh Mohabbat

Aj social media scroll karte karte aik tasveer nazar se guzri. Likha tha ke apne bachon ko sawal karne ki aadat daliye, warna woh har baat ko bas is liye sach maan lenge ke kehne wale ke naam ke aagay PhD, Professor ya koi bara ohda likha hoga. Baat sochne wali lagi. Taleem ka asal maqsad jawab ratna nahi, sawal karna aur sach ki talaash karna hai. Jo zehan sawal karna chhor de, wahan andhi taqleed janam leti hai.

Aj aik aur khayal dil ko chhoo gaya. Hum aksar gunah ko sirf aik ghalat amal samajhte hain, lekin haqeeqat mein har gunah insaan se kuch na kuch cheen kar le jata hai. Kisi se sukoon chala jata hai, kisi ki duaon mein lazzat nahi rehti, kisi ki rozi se barkat uth jati hai aur kisi ka dil Allah ki yaad se door hone lagta hai. Gunah ki sab se badi saza shayad yahi hai ke insaan ko apni rooh ki bechaini ka ehsaas bhi dheere dheere khatam ho jata hai.

Aur agar aaj kisi ko yeh baat sunne ki zarurat hai to bas itna yaad rakhiye... apne aap par itni sakhti mat kijiye. Hum sab insaan hain. Kabhi achhe din hote hain, kabhi bure. Kabhi ghalti ho jati hai, kabhi lafz theek nahi nikalte. Is ka matlab yeh nahi ke umeed chhor di jaye. Ghalti par nadamat aur us ki islaah ki koshish hi insaan ko behtar banati hai.

Aj kal log sadqay ko sirf paison tak mehdood samajhte hain. Halaanke kisi ko maaf kar dena bhi sadqah hai. Kisi ki izzat bacha lena bhi sadqah hai. Kisi ka raaz apne seene mein mehfooz rakhna bhi sadqah hai. Aur sab se khoobsurat sadqah shayad yeh hai ke kisi tootay huay dil ko itna keh diya jaye...

"Main hoon... tum akele nahi ho."

Kabhi kabhi yeh chand alfaaz hazaron rupay se zyada qeemti sabit hote hain.

Baap ki baat aaye to dil khud ba khud narm ho jata hai. Baap apni aulaad ki har chhoti khwahish poori karne ki koshish karta hai. Jo cheezen usay apne bachpan mein naseeb nahi hotin, woh apne bachon ke liye hasil karna chahta hai. Phir jab wohi bachay jawan hote hain to baap kabhi kabhi sakht alfaaz bol deta hai. Hum samajhte hain shayad woh hum se khush nahi. Magar asal mein woh apni dekhi hui tangdasti, mehnat aur mehroomiyon ka bojh hum tak pahunchne nahi dena chahta. Us ki sakhti ke peechay aksar mohabbat hoti hai, bas us ka izhar humari tarah nahi hota.

Aj kal aik aur ajeeb cheez dekhne ko milti hai. Log chhote gharon mein rehte hain lekin un ka ghuroor poore ghar mein phaila hota hai. Insaan jitna buland hota hai, utna hi jhukna seekh leta hai. Takabbur kabhi kisi ko bada nahi banata.

Aur zindagi... zindagi bhi namazon ki tarah hai. Fajr se shuru hoti hai aur dekhte hi dekhte Maghrib aa jati hai. Bachpan, jawani aur phir budhapa... sab kuch itni tezi se guzarta hai ke insaan sochta reh jata hai. Is liye jab tak waqt hai, apne aamaal ko khushboo dijiye. Aisa na ho ke Maghrib aa jaye aur hum tayyari hi na kar sakein.

Aaj ki baat ko isi khayal par khatam karta hoon...

Zindagi ka asal husn is baat mein nahi ke hum kitni der jeeye... balkeh is baat mein hai ke jab Maghrib ka waqt aaye to hamari rooh Allah se milne ke liye sharminda nahi, mutmain ho.