The Power of a True Friend When Life Feels Heavy

Friendship is the most powerful and comforting element of a normal human life, especially when you are in your lowest moment, when you are unable to feel good, there is no motivation, and everything seems useless to you. Then a friend acts like a lighthouse for you, always keeping you in the light. He understands you and is with you in your difficult times. He does not judge you during those times. He helps you out of there and does not ask for anything from you. He just stays with you, and even without a reason, that presence means a lot because not everyone gets friendship always. But the ones who get it are very lucky because they know that if they face any problem, there is someone to help them.

Take my example. Many times it happens to me that I am unable to understand something. Like, if I am unable to understand some topic in college, then my friend, without judging me, gives me everything for free without asking me anything, and neither does he ask for anything, then why did he waste his time? He considers me as his friend, that is why he invests his time on me and studies me along with him, so this is a very good moment for me, Sometimes, I fail to show how thankful I am, but deep down, I know he’s more than just a friend—he’s a blessing in my life, but it is a very valuable thing for my life, I mean it is a very important thing. Without it, I am nothing. This is what true friendship means.

Everyone experiences some or other problems in their life, like career failure, heartbreak, increased mental stress or something normal, but if someone stands by you in all those things and he doesn't want anything from you, it happens without any negative or anything. You just make a call to your friend and tell him that something has happened, and he comes to your house. He comes to your place, brings fresh food, and says, ‘Let’s eat something nice together. You can feel good. Then he tells you a silly joke. He takes you out to eat or does something that makes you smile, then that thing is very important for him, and he will take you out of such a place and put you in a very good place. Suppose if you are in depression, he will take you out of depression and put you in a happy place, then all these things are the true meaning of friendship.

It happens many times. There are many moments when even your family does not understand you properly, but there is a friend who may be far away from you, but he understands everything. Whatever you have, you first tell him. Whether it is your family or your girlfriend, you can imagine how much they will be in your life. Suppose. There is something that you can share with your girlfriend. Or with your family members, with whom will you share it? You will not be able to keep it suppressed for a long time. You always share that thing with your best friend, so best friend is such a thing which is very important. It is important for every person in your life to become a friend because you will share everything with them, and they will also give you the solution to everything. Even if there is no solution, he will stand with you. Whatever problem you have, I am always standing with you.

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And the most important thing is that friendship is never made in terms of money or what you have achieved. Friendship is always made. The person who stays with you is like you, and whether he is rich or poor, friendship never sees this. Friendship is how loyal you are or how much you can stand someone. For example, talk about me. My friends never see how much money you have or don't have. They only see how loyal you are. If I make a call asking if you can come or not. All these things are important. In any friendship, you will find all these things very important.

Sometimes it happens that you are in a lot of trouble in your life, or you don't feel good about anything. You are very depressed, you neither talk to your family nor anyone else, so friends are such that they will always do something new and exciting for you. Whether it is giving you a new book or doing something that will make you forget the old things, then what will happen is that if you pay more attention to the new things, the old things will go away. Depression will also reduce, so all these things give a lot of importance to friendship.

Many times, it happens that you overthink some things. But when you are sitting with your friends, any random topic comes up and you keep laughing by making meaningless arguments on it, then all these things will distract you from the bad things and you will laugh, due to which you will feel a lot of excitement in your brain, due to which you will laugh or you will start joking and you will start feeling good. All these things are very important in life. In life, friendship brings you. Friendship brings funny words, beautiful memories, and reasons to laugh that make life feel worth it, which always keeps you happy. Whenever you think about it later, even then, you will get happiness by thinking about that thing.

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Lastly, I would like to say that friendship is neither a relationship nor is it like a family member. Friendship means a shield which is always there in front of you. Whatever problem you have, you will share it with him. He will bring you a solution, if not a solution, then at least he will stand by you in every situation, no matter how bad it is, and that is the most powerful thing. When a friend becomes your support, when he tells you everything about what to do and what not to do, then at that time, you are very important to him, and he judges you. Nor do his negative thoughts grow on you. You have to learn to always stay positive because he wants you to be happy and not sad.

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