Learning from Failure
Serial is such a word that on hearing it the heart feels a little hesitant. Some memories get refreshed. Failing in an exam, getting rejected in an interview, or the breakup of a close relationship, we all have faced failure at some point in life. But have you ever thought that failure is not just one more failure but it can be a beginning? The sinus does not always move in a straight line. Sometimes up, sometimes down, and it is hidden in these lower hair only. The deepest lesson of all is that we feel the most valuable when we fail. But this very ability to study teaches us to shift our interest. Every failure is like a minute. It shows us who we are, who we went wrong, and how we can do better.
There has been pressure on us since childhood. We have to top the exams, come first. We have to perform well and when this expectation is not met then we take it with great value. But the truth is falling at something that does not mean anything, it just shows that we have not learned properly. Thomas Edison said I have not failed I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work. Failure first of all gives us relationships. It breaks our ego and makes us humble. As long as everything is going smoothly, we think we are unbeatable but a failure brings us down to earth. At that moment, we have to rely on the fact that we still have to learn.
This humanity makes us open to a new perspective on new history, the second lesson that failure gives us is to get up after making headlines, when you try again even after falling every time, a different kind of mental toughness develops in you. Every time you fail, you bounce back from it. You get involved in a new mission, just like iron is strong, it does not exist until it gets the heat of the eye. Similarly, a human being also becomes strong only by facing difficulties.
The serial also teaches us gratitude. When we achieve everything, we forget to appreciate it. But when everything is lost, we understand how valuable it is. When we get an opportunity again after a single rejection or loss, then we understand its value. Gratitude brings contentment, and this contentment makes life peaceful.
Another important thing is that failure makes us empathetic. When we go through some pain, then we can feel the pain of others. Now, you must have noticed that the most kind and supportive people are those who have suffered at some point in their lives. When you fail, then you understand the struggles of others. You start understanding them and respect their journey. In society, failure is sometimes seen with a negative meaning. People say, hey, this one has failed. They play it as if failure means a complete collapse of the personality, but in reality, people do not fail. They have never been challenged or struck by anything. One does horrible innovates and crooks. They have always faced failure.
Bill Gates, J.K. Rowling, Steve Jobs Everyone has faced major failures in their career. Rowling was rejected from 12 public before publishing Harry Potter. Steve Jobs was fired from his own company and today he is the biggest name out there and everyone respects them.
Failure teaches us one more thing - the result of detachment. When we become overly attacked with any task, it breaks us first. But when we focus on the process and keep the result secondary, then we maintain emotional balance. This mindset block is critical for success and the truth is that failure leads us to the door of creativity and innovation. When the paths are closed, we are forced to find other ways. This compulsion itself sometimes gives birth to creativity. New solutions, new approaches, and new courses appear anytime, whenever the old ones fail.
The most important license that you get from failure is that the real test of success also comes someday. When you have sifted the flower of failure when you achieve victory after a hard-to-mind battle, the level of happiness in that is different. IT'S NOT GIVEN THAT'S A FEELING THAT MAKES YOU WONDERFUL AND GRATEFUL. If you are going through a failure, then remember this. It is not a given. It is a pose. It is a reduction. Most of life is taking you in another direction where you can block more. What seems like a mistake today can become the turning point of your story tomorrow.
Failure always shows us that perfection is not necessary, but progress is. Every mistake and every setback is a lesson. People who adopt this lesson move forward. So the next time you tell life not to end it in a moment like that. Consider it a teaching moment. Respect your journey, whether it is a mistake, a certain thing, or a painful because that journey will take you to those heights where only dreams can be reached.
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