Avoiding a Situation Doesn’t Mean You’re Weak

There always comes a situation in life when you are told to step off or avoid something in this situation. There are many situations where it is better to avoid something and set something that will keep your mental peace good. For example, take a person who is arguing with you that he does not matter. What is he doing if you step back then he will understand this meaning of you. Should you not tighten it, it doesn't happen that if you don't get the chance to land then you can also make a move. In most situations, you don't feel like wasting energy because you don't deserve it. You should not always be like this that you deal with every situation and always fight.

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And the thing is that whenever you are in such a situation where you will be under stress or you will be very angry, then such things will come out of your mouth which will not be good. What should happen with a friend or any other family member is that you should not fight continuously. You should leave it aside. You should calm down your emotions and sit and talk properly. Imagine two of you are shouting at each other and no one is listening, how will you feel if there is a fight inside, then avoiding is a very good thing in all situations because by avoiding you are showing your self-respect and also you are not saying anything wrong to the other person.

What people do sometimes is go into such situations where you are not needed like between two people or within a family, it is a very good thing but you are not supposed to help everywhere, help only where you need to, it is not like that if you go and help somewhere and make the thing worse or everyone turns against you, then you should not do all this and whenever you help, find out first whether they need help or not, if it is not so that you help them, if they did not need help at all, then all this is not good, so avoid all these things.

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Avoiding does not mean that you are ignoring him. Every day means that you are choosing that you will not talk to him at that time. Take an example. If your mother and father fight with each other, then you should not go there. You should avoid that time. You can understand later. At such times, you should simply do this. Calm your mind and keep it aside. And if you feel very guilty, then avoiding them does not mean that you are ignoring them or that you do not care for them. It means that if you give your time to both of them, then they will be fine according to their time, so you should not go there at that time because it is a very personal matter for both of you, so this is what avoiding means.

Sometimes it happens that avoiding a big problem also helps you in getting out of it. For example, if you fight with someone and you want to get physical with him. If he wants to beat you then you should leave, even if it is his fault but beating or getting physical is a very wrong thing because it can hurt you as well as the other person and if he hits you in such a way that you will have a problem for the rest of your life or if he hits you in the legs due to which your stomach breaks then it is a big problem. I should not do all this. You should avoid all these things. By avoiding all these things, your safety will be good today and you can file a police complaint or you will get this direction but avoiding road fights and fighting with strangers is a very avoidable thing.

But avoiding everywhere is also a very wrong thing. This is also not right. Like if you have a situation at a place where you have to work then you should work at that place, do not avoid it. Like when you get a job, many people avoid it saying that they will do it later, then all this is wrong. All this should be done. You should avoid doing that thing in which you are not needed. Work on that thing where you are needed.

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And one very important thing is never ask anything to anyone in anger, avoid it at that time. Anything said in anger is very wrong and later you will be saved from doing it. Why did I say it because in anger the mind is never stable and the mind is always unstable, so in that anger something came out which you should not have said or said something which you should not have said because whether the person in front is your friend or someone in a relationship or a family member, then this time feels very bad. Tell the other person that the other person remains calm and then explain the situation to him. But never do something that something comes out in anger which makes you think for your whole life why I said it.

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