Why Friendship Is the Real Treasure of Life
Life is a beautiful journey in which we meet famous people at every turn. Some are just companions on the way, but others are very close. We call them friends. Friendship is such a relationship, an emotional connection that keeps growing with time and distance. It is not a blood relation and sometimes the relationship is deeper than family that whenever we are unable to tell our parents about something, we tell it through friends because we trust them blindly and friends also respect us a lot and the trust we have, never breaks. That is why it is said that whatever relation we have, God creates them. But we choose our friends ourselves. Now best friends are so close that sometimes some things are not understood by mother and father.
Friendship is not something that involves just hanging out or spending pet time together, friendship is meaningful when it means being with each other in happiness and sorrow, it is said that if we consider it emotional then good friends are those who make you happy in happy times and take you out of sadness when you are sad. Childhood friends are the most innocent and during school days we used to share tiffin and sit on each other's bench. We do all this with our friends after getting scolded by the teacher. That is why there are so many such memories that can only be made with friends and no matter how old we become and how many friends we have, we can never have complete friends.
Friends have different colors in college life. This is the time when we start making our own decisions. We export our life. Friends are often found in this phase of meeting new people, but they get stuck between maturity and understanding because college friendships are very career-oriented.
But the best friendship is that of childhood when we have been playing together since childhood and have grown up together since childhood, so this friendship is a different kind of friendship because there is a lot of love in it. Friendship feels very nice and such friendship is also a lot of fun because friendship teaches a lot. We have to develop emotional intelligence, stay together, and take care of each other's feelings, if they ever fight with anyone, then being with them, these are very different friendship. Sometimes a friend has a big fight with his family members, and then that friend tells his feelings, and all this happens in a very natural way.
A friend's support is priceless at two times in life. When we go through a tough time in life or something happens that things are not working out. We get very angry, then a friend becomes like an emotional connection. He simply says, "I am here" and works like therapy and gives solutions. He sits with you and supports you emotionally. If you need anything, he is always there for you. Friendship also gives you confidence but when you don't have anything, why would you need confidence? He celebrates small achievements with you and all this happens automatically and never puts the trouble on anyone. He remains happy in himself. It always feels good that you have no friend with you who is with you in everything, be it happiness or sorrow.
I have seen many people that when a girl comes into their life, then when they are in a relationship, they do not give importance to their friend or else they remove their friend, but this is a very wrong thing because there is no guarantee whether that girl will stay with you or not. But a friend, if you have ever called someone brother then it means that he will not remain with you forever, no matter how big a scandal you get into. In my personal experience, I have done so many scandals with my friends that I cannot even talk. Sometimes I even went to the police station. Such scandals have happened, so I always supported my friends.
But today in this digital age the meaning of friendship has changed a bit. We make more friends through WhatsApp contacts rather than Instagram following. But real friends are those with whom I play cricket in the evening or have tea in the rain at night. Real friends are genuine and are like a blessing. There are no boundaries in friendship. Beyond gender, friendship is the entry of humanity. How much he is supporting you? We are emotionally and mentally and there is also mutual respect. Friendship is always with those people. People who have a clean heart, are many people who show friendship, otherwise, I do not believe it. Their heart is clean.
No matter how busy you are in life, be it a call, a test, or a short meeting, do keep your friends happy because friendship is as important as giving effort. Love is not just kept in memories, giving time to friendship makes a relationship strong and a friendship is a different stage of mind. Our friends are from different schools and colleges, the role of which is Krishna in your scriptures. Every friend gives a new perspective and friendship is a new color in your personality too. So if you have only one good friend, whom you love from the heart and whom you trust more than yourself, then never forget that person, give him time appreciate him, and understand his value in your life. Friendship is not just a part of life, it is a life, itself.
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This is so insightful writings, thanks for sharing
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