Old Souls, New World - Keeping a Childhood Best Friend in Modern Times

In this era when everything has become instant from instant noodles to instant messages, there should be a relationship that can stand the test of time. A person who is not just a part of the moments but the entire journey and it is no less than a treasure and having a best friend or finding a true friend is no less than winning a lottery There is someone in everyone's life with whom everything can be shared and when that person becomes a best friend, everything becomes even easier. There is no need to hide one's animation, no pressure to approve anything, and we can reach a point where we can transition back into our real life. Without any filter, without any education, and maybe that is why it is said. Having a best friend is a real relief.

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I think to myself how much the world has changed, and how earlier we used to write letters; now typing is done, and people used to come to meet. Now video calls are made and earlier the patient used to sleep with a friend. That expectation has increased and yet if you find such a person who is the same even after years. Meets with the same understanding, then you feel that you have achieved something. The ultimate best friend in the world is the one who does not change with time but becomes deeper.

A true friend is not just there for jokes and laughter, he is there even when you are a bit shattered when your phone rings at 3:00 in the night and his name is on the screen. Without any reason, he understands from you that something is wrong when you don't even know what is happening. He just remains silent when it comes to his matter. He sits next to you. He and his silence are so comforting. Someone has understood your pain without words. A friend is not the one who goes for a walk with you on the phone or the one who says 'I am with you' in a photo, but the one who knows your weakness and still makes you strong and supports you even in your failures, rather he becomes the lesson of your journey. He also motivates you and being a best friend does not only mean fun and laughter but also a silent power.

When life seems like a traffic jam, a slow-moving first rate bigger than the noise, then a best friend's talk, his message or his memory seems like a green signal and he is the only person who gives release and when you get to do such a thing in your world and knows your mood. He becomes happy without you saying anything and just by seeing your happiness, no matter how stressed he is the beautiful thing is that with your best friend, you don't even need to act and no matter how addicted you are, how lazy you are or how difficult you are, he already knows everything and still he likes you and your best friend remember even the things that you have forgotten yourself and sometimes he knows more than you.

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In today's world where relations are made either for some transaction or for some benefit, a best friend is someone who is with you for any reason, with no expectations, no conditions, and only an emotion and this feeling cannot be replaced. He is not bothered by the last seen of WhatsApp. He just knows when you will need him. Childhood friendship is different, but if a person is with you at every turn of life then he is there. He is not just a friend, he becomes family and he has a part in every experiment. He has his opinion in every decision. There is his smile in every celebration and without him no plan seems complete and the world seems incomplete without him.

Sometimes people think what is the use of friendship when everyone is busy in their life and when a difficult time comes, then we understand how big a thing it is to have a friend and everyone else goes away. Even then a best friend is so close to the heart that his presence is felt even without being physical and maybe that is why it is said. True friendship has no distance, two expiries and the real fun of life comes only when you have a friend With whom you can share your pain and your happiness with everyone and you can understand without speaking, and I know the anger inside you and can help you in removing it, and not everyone gets such a person and the one who gets him is the luckiest person in the world.

With time people grow up and situations change but if a best friend is with us then we will manage. It seems easy and in every new face there is an old comfort and even being away from home, we find a home and we carry old memories with us to the new city and find a reason in its sadness. We find it. There is a pain in the darkness of smile, in silence. We find yours and we connect with thousands of people on social media. But still, sometimes we feel lonely and only a best friend can understand that loneliness and a simple thing like that. Reminding us of an old memory, even a small, simple smile is enough to set your mood right and it has a more effective effect than any motivational quote.

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In the end, I would just like to say this much. If I have a friend who is attached to you without any reason, then he holds your hand every time at his thought time, who makes you happy in your work and cries with you in your ruin. It is not enough to just say thank you to him when needed and he should be made a permanent part of your life and it is not easy to find a best friend. If you get one, then taking care of him is a big responsibility. No matter how modern the world becomes, no matter how advanced the technology becomes, there is no replacement for emotions and a friend like this is an emotional asset who never gets depressed. He gives value every time and also gives hope and perspective, perhaps that is why it is said that having a best friend is like having a mirror with a soul.

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