Loh Contest #204 ~ Know Where You Belong.

In today’s world, if you follow up with marriage news, you will find out that the rate of divorce is high. Sometimes, its the fault of the man and sometimes that of a woman. This depends on what happened and I even found out that cheating is one of the less reasons why people divorce these days. Maybe they felt there are more serious issues than that.


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A husband told his wife that he wishes her to say "okay" and "yes" to whatever he says to avoid further discussions or arguments. What would you do if you were in her shoes? Would you agree and nod to everything even when it is against your will or feelings?

This makes no sense to me and it is one of the major reasons why we have too many divorces today. Why will a man say that he only wants his voice, say and opinion in his house? So, what’s going to be the impact of the woman in the house? For decoration?

I think this is where the mistake comes from. A lot of people these days marry just because they love the lady but not because they feel she is relevant enough that they can rub minds together and bring ideas to make each other’s lives better.
That’s why when some women find out, they mostly leave the marriage.

Any household that is set under a law like this is very likely to be boring and may fail. Women are supposed to be supporters just as it is written in the Bible. Men should learn to embrace their woman so she could speak.


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Dear women, our voices must be heard and if you ever find yourself in a place where your voice is not heard, leave that place because it’s not for you.



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Best to know what you want before having children, many woman stay silent in the hope of a good home over having a voice. Difficult decisions for young folk today.

!PIZZA
!LUV

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It’s kinda difficult but we just have to speak up whether we like it or not

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Extremely difficult, one can never pass comment unless you have walked in that persons shoes....

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Being in such a relationship or marriage is not different from being in jail.

This is why you don't marry people because of what they can give you. Instead you marry for purpose

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That’s correct
Why won’t a woman feel free in her home?
It’s crazy

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It is true that in a relationship it is important that you can exchange and share ideas to improve life as a couple, !LADY

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That’s why some people have relationships just because they wish to talk to someone and they have to appreciate that

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No matter the reason or excuse, a man or any party to a relationship should not suppress another. If that happens, the relationship is already doomed.

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No party should suppress the other
We know the man is the head of the house but he should let his wife have a say in the marriage

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