RE: What To Do With Change
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Why do I understand and relate to everything said in this text?
In a way,for me and my relationship with people,it just comes off with or they conclude that I am the villain. In any situation at all. The random pause in the friendship and me not wanting to make a conversation,not because anything's wrong with you,you didn't do anything. It's just the way I've been forced to be,by the universe if that makes any sense.
But they wouldn’t understand, because the first instinct of a person may not be to ask you what is making you act a particular way but to draw conclusions within themselves.
At this particular point in the relationship,you are the bad one. "I mean yeah, there's a drift.what's it about? Did you come ask me and I didn't tell you what is really up!?" Fun fact is,I wouldn't have actually said anything but there's always this lingering need to be cared about.
Yeah, I relate to this so well. The lingering need to be cared about. It's a bit selfish, but what can we do with how we feel? Lol.
My question usually is, did you need something and I wasn't there for you. How possible is it that you want to keep a relationship booming for years on end and expect that there wouldn't be some form of change? It makes total sense that we didn't have a quarrel and you didn't wrong me, but it's still okay if I want to be away. Most of the time, it has nothing to do with you. Wish everyone understood that.💜
Me too. But it is what it is.