Finding the Right Time for Love and Commitment

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Marriageable age is such an interesting topic cause I also would marry one day so let's talk about it my opinion on the prompt:

Normally as at this current generation now the current age for girls to marry around 25 and while boys around 30s like 5 years gap between the husband and the wife, I feel this age is appropriate to marry but In view of the outside world now even girl which clock her 18 years old is already sent out to marry that the harsh truth of the current generation will leave now, people feel as far as the love is there and money what holding them not to marry I feel marriage is more than that.

You see we dont just bump into marriage that easily we need to understand why and what we are marrying for, so many people jump into marriage nowadays after a month or so fight breaks out and they will be like I never knew you were this kind of person I would never have married you So many question arises like that.

And have seen some where they are being pushed because they have a body that quickly ages so to avoid issues of menopause they just bump into marriage so many cases and all like that even family would pressure a daughter to go and marry see all your mates bringing a man to the house what are you waiting for? And so on like that.

While the other questions should a person marry someone ten years younger than them well for my own understanding it's not health-wise problems arise but at the same time if they have understanding of each other they're good to go if the love is committed I dont see reason why you shouldn't marry the person.

Sometimes some traditions push people into marrying at an earlier age it happens I was talking to someone the other day a friend she was like It was before the Muslim religion sent their daughter at a young age to go and marry Now it doesn't happen as
Late trending but some others still do it.

Marrying someone within the same age leads to fights honestly disrespect follows we know that marriage issues arise so it can be problematic for both one would feel superior to the other they will be like Come we're the same age In my own opinion it will lead to chaos.

The best could happen is Five years interval between both couples it still much okay and acceptable rules in conclusion marriage should be around the age of 25 I think and before then you need to understand how marriage works and be ready to leave some lifestyle which you know might affect your marriage so many people can tend to leave those habit they do when they were singles before marriage which affects most marriage nowadays both two parties must understand each other agreed on what they will do once they marry a dn what they wouldn't do it a once in a life choice.

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The pressure is real and it has led many into marriages they shouldn't have gotten in at all.
I'd still rather not give an age that's right, there's no perfect way into marriage.

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You are absolutely right there is no perfect way into marriage

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Some people go into marriage even at such young age due to pressure without giving them rooms to understand what marriage entails and this is what makes some marriages collapse after some while.

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You are right people dont just think okay i enter marriage that all thanks for sharing

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Why give a chance to pressure? So many people are in a marriage because of pressure and they have forgotten, marriage is a lifetime. You need to understand it👌

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