Surrogacy should not be an options unless necessary

Surrogacy is a word that I heard for the first time in a drama. I didn't understand the meaning of it. I searched for it on Google out of curiosity, and I understood the meaning of it. Today I am not going to explain what it is because I believe that you also know the meaning of it. Still, if you don't know, then you can go to Google, as it's just a matter of a few clicks.

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Is surrogacy a good practice or not? What do people think about it from the ethical perspective? Should it be encouraged or not?

First of all, it's not an illegal thing, and anyone can go for it. No one has the right to stop others in that case because the law has no conflict with it.

Let me assume people go for surrogacy? The first season is a health issue. It has been seen that those mothers who can't conceive because of health issues need to go for it, as they don't have any other option if they want to be mothers. Again, some are afraid of the pain and difficulties of pregnancy. Some celebrities don't want to lose their body shape and choose this option as it's related to their career. Again, choose options because they just don't want to suffer for it. Not because they are afraid of it. It can be considered as the shortcut from one perspective.

Let me share my thoughts about it. I am not a woman, and I never suffered the pain and difficulties of pregnancy. I just know that giving birth to a child is an extremely painful one, like breaking the bone of the body. I respect all the mothers who go through this process, including my mother. To be honest, I don't have the right to judge about the topic. So before saying anything, I am apologizing if any word seems hurtful.

Every woman deserves the feeling of being a mother. It's a beautiful feeling, but at the same time, they need to go through many difficulties and pain during the time of pregnancy. But some are unlucky and have health issues. Fortunately, in this advanced world, there are surrogacy options that allow them to be mothers. In that case, I think surrogacy is a very good thing.

Let's talk about the celebrities and those people who are afraid of the pain. Surrogacy is not a compulsory thing for them. And in that case, I don't think it's a good thing. I understand that it's an extremely painful thing. Have you ever thought why a mother goes for a second, third, or fourth child even if the mother needs to go through a painful process? I don't think they are fools to bear pain each time. During the time of pregnancy, the bond between mother and child becomes stronger with time. If a mother doesn't go through the process, she may miss the strong affection for her child. In fact, I am very confident that she must have a lack of affection towards the child.

Sounds hurtful. Right? I am not going to take back my statement. I believe that if a woman avoids the pregnancy and the feeling of the time just because of a career or being afraid of suffering, she doesn't deserve to be a mother. Saman, who can put their career first before their child, won't hesitate to leave the child also in a crisis situation as she doesn't go through the hardships of giving childbirth. She will think that he can get another child through surrogacy again without any pain.

Again, in some countries, I heard that surrogacy became a business. I feel very bad thinking that being a mother became a business. I think in that case it's kind of a humiliation for those mothers who were going through the painful process. If that's the case, I don't think there is anything to appreciate.