Give another try but not again and again

Marriage is one of the most important events in a person's life. However, I would love to say it is a journey rather than acknowledging it as an event. Through marriage couple is bound to live together and live a happy life by supporting each other, and that's the way with time, a family grows, and with time, their children also join the family. Everyone wishes to live a happy life, and I'm sure that nobody gets married with the intention of separation.

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The term divorce comes when a couple decides to separate from each other, and it's the legal procedure of separation. Divorce is an unwanted thing, but sometimes it comes, and it's unavoidable for some couples. It doesn't make too much impact if parents don't have any kids, but when they have kids, it makes a significant impact on the lives of children, and I think many things need to be considered in that case. I'm not a married person, and so I don't have any experience with divorce, but I can share my thoughts related to it based on my judgment. It may not be accurate, but there's nothing wrong with sharing.

Many people love to say that a married couple are soul mates, but it's not the truth because everyone is different and has different thoughts, which is very normal. Sometimes it can be opposite and conflicting, even within a married couple. That's why it's necessary to remain cautious before getting married. It may not guarantee a happy life, but it may reduce the chance of choosing the wrong partner.

As humans, everyone has flaws and strengths, and between couples, it's also the same. In a healthy relationship, husband and wife try to cover the flaws of each other and become the strength of each other, but because of conflicting mentality, they make things worse. In that case couple tries to blame each other and humiliate each other, showing their weakness, which is the opposite of an ideal relationship. In that case couple should decide to go for divorce if they have children, because children are directly affected because of it.

No relationship is perfect, and misunderstandings are not surprising either. In that case, most couples can figure out a solution easily, but sometimes it doesn't work, and they think of separation. I think sometimes a relationship needs some sacrifices and compromise from both partners, and both partners need to contribute to it. They need to make efforts to revive their relationship. I believe that if a couple decides to separate, they should try to make an effort to make things well, at least for the future of their kids. I think it's worth giving it a try because they are the ones who brought their child into this world, and it's their responsibility. I have seen that after a divorce, kids need to suffer a lot. As parents, I think they shouldn't give their best shot to get well with their relationship.

But again, I think only for their kids, making compromises again and again in a relationship is not a good thing. It's because in that kind of relationship, toxicity between partners comes very easily, and kids also understand the toxicity of it. In that case, I think children receive the maximum damage, which is more than the damage children can get from the separation of their parents. So, in that case, separation is the best choice because it can minimize the damage.

I know that I can't force anyone to decide their life because it's their life, and I have no right to decide for them. I just shared here what I think about it.