Disciplining children is the result of the act in time

It says that parents are the divine gifts for children, and again it also says that parents are the first teachers for a kid. Both of the statements are right, and I agree with them. A child learns most of the things in childhood from the parents or their actions. Disciplining a child is the responsibility of parents, and they have their ways to discipline us.

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Disciplining a child is very important because it lets them (kids) know what they should do and what they should not. Some parents are strict, and some parents are very flexible with their kids. If the father and mother are both strict to their child, it is nothing more than hell to a child because in such a condition, children don't feel the love from the parents, and with time, the parent-child relationship starts to be toxic. Those children face one kind of mental torture from their parents, and they don't have anyone to share their pain with. Sometimes, they trust the wrong people, and they take advantage of it. Those children try to rebel when they gather the courage to speak against their parents, and naturally, they don't understand the good intentions of parents in most cases. From one point of view, I think those parents deserve such kind of treatment also, as they also don't understand their child, and it's kind of a crime in my eyes.

Let's talk about what happens to those children whose parents are too flexible with them. Nothing is good if that crosses a certain limit, and in this case, it's also the same. Children make mistakes, and it's very natural. It's the responsibility of parents to make them understand their children made a mistake. But some parents play a tolerant role in that case rather than correcting them or making them realize. They think their child is very little, and after growing up, they won't make such a mistake again. It's the greatest mistake because they don't even understand that they are making mistakes. When they don't know, there is no chance to correct it on their own. Moreover, playing such a role encourages a child to make that kind of mistake more and more. Tolerating means spoiling their children.

In my country, most parents try to discipline their kids by fear. I have seen some parents beating their children so badly that I never considered beating an animal so hard either. I believe that trying to discipline children by fear is not a long-term solution. It's because after a certain time children can overcome the fear, and in that time they become reckless and they don't care about the opinion of parents in that case. It's because being beaten by parents became very natural to them, and they become used to it, so it's not a long-term solution. Indeed, children don't understand everything, but it does not mean they can't understand anything. They can make mistakes, and parents can remind them that they are making mistakes. Parents can tell them about the consequences of their mistakes and wrong actions and alert them not to make the same mistakes again. Parents should be friendly to their children, and a friendly conversation can solve most of the issues related to disciplining a kid. But at the same time there must be a limit to it because if a kid keeps making the same mistakes again and again after being given a warning, there must be punishment for it. Although I don't prefer beating a child, sometimes parents need to be strict with their child and beat them to make them realize that they are wrong. There is not any specific method to discipline a child. Just act sensibly based on the situation.