Being good or bad is a choice

Everything comes into this world in pairs. There are many examples of it, and some of them are light and darkness, good and evil, happiness and sadness, and so many other things. If there is no darkness, then the light is meaningless because in that case, we won't be able to understand the value of light. It's the same that everything comes in pairs. Like that, we have good people and bad people. Do those people come to this world with those traits?

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It says that a newborn baby is innocent and it has nothing to do with good or evil. The newborn baby doesn't know the meaning of those things. After coming to this world, they start learning. They pay close attention to others, especially the parents and close people who stay with them. They try to learn something from their behaviors. So the people surrounding kids have a significant influence on the character development of kids. If those people behave well, it can create a positive influence on kids, and it's the opposite if they behave improperly.

After growing up a little, a kid makes friends, and it's very natural. Friends are those people who stay close to their hearts, and it's the same for everyone. It does not matter if someone is a kid or an adult in the case. So friends have influence for sure. Good friends bring a positive influence, while bad friends bring a negative influence. That's why it is necessary to choose the right person as a friend; otherwise, it's enough to destroy a beautiful and promising future. So, depending on friends, one person can be good and bad.

Society can also have an influence on a person. I think most of the people love to spend their lives peacefully, but sometimes, because of societal pressure and unfair judgment, many people become victims. Such a thing can also be enough to make a good person into a bad person. In a society, if people treat others equally and fairly, misunderstanding and conflict can be avoided in many cases. If someone is treated unfairly, trying to take revenge is not abnormal either. So, society plays the most important role in making a person good or bad.

Instead of those mentioned, the most important one is the mentality and the choice. I know that everything has influence, but the person is an individual and has unique thoughts. With growth, people can understand many things. They learn about what I can do and what is wrong. What should we do and what should we not do? If people do something wrong and understand it, there must be a way to correct it. After knowing what is right and what is wrong, it depends on the person which way the person choose. The person can choose the right way, and at the same time, he can choose the wrong one also. So, it depends on the person's choice. In the case of good and bad, I think it's the person's choice, and I blame her mostly, rather than other factors, because everything can be solved if someone has the right mentality.

There are many people who came from good places but turned into evil, and at the same time, there are many people who came from an evil place, but they have good qualities, and that's the proof of what one person chooses to do. If something bad happened to me, it's not necessary to take revenge for it. I met you to do something, not to have the same thing happen with others, rather than taking revenge, which is the positive point in my opinion.

Can a bad person turn into a good human? To be honest, it's possible, but it's difficult because other factors don't allow me to be a good man easily. I mean, this suffers if they try to be good. But it's still possible. It can happen because humans learn from mistakes, but in my eyes, such a thing happens in rare cases.