REALIBLE FRIENDS ARE LIKE FAMILY MEMBERS, LOH #299...!!

Hello Ladies,

It's a beautiful brand new week, i so much believe that we all shall achieve greatness and satisfactions as we navigate through the week internationally... Good Luck to everyone of us, don't forget that there is a very heavy downpour this Monday Morning in my area.🌂🇳🇬 😂.

AI generated, from ecency

The questions for this week by our dear judge, @yachee are deep thought provoking questions. Of which anyone attempting to answer them have to relax and get your thoughts organized in retrospect, pondering about which of these many friends that has been loyal, useful to the extent that both of you had coordinated affairs of life in harmony and then benefited from one another.

Question one

"There's a long standing belief that genuine female friendships are rare to find or difficult to sustain. Has this influenced the way you approach or interact with other women in your space?"

"Are there aspects of female friendships that you have come to appreciate the most and how have you also navigated the challenges that comes with building something intentional with females?"

For me, it depends on who you as a person, who you have chosen to be your friend or your friends. Life thrives on everyone's choices, who do you accept as your friend?, what are the boundaries you have decided to keep for yourself, so that you can have a good mental health and mindset in your entire life.

Making anyhow friends with whom ever that comes your way will lead you into so many dramas, except if you are like them. The types of human characters you choose to abide with matters so much and it's a pointer to the type of human being you are. I like and interact with peaceful, intelligent and reliable people

This question therefore, demands an indepth thoughts and reflections about the friendships you have had back then in the past and to the present adulthood friendships you have now. I have had some many nice friends, naturally, friends get attracted to me. I don't go about looking for friends, I have that understanding that people naturally get attracted to me and decide on their own to be my good friends. From there, we can open up to know the indepth of what concerns us or what bothers them to me and in turn, I have genuinely suggested and advised many on issues that finally resolved their needs and given them acceptable results.

Question two

Tell us about a memorable friendship experience that made you realize you had found someone who would always have your back. What did they do that left such a lasting impression on you, and how has that friendship changed your view about life?

I have had and still having supportive friends. Of which I and my friends have been very supportive to each others, we are helpful to one another and to ourselves, we are happy with one another, we are doing quite well. Their reliability has made me know that they're supportive friends, we are always standing by and with one another or each other.

I have joyful feelings about my friends, , because when you find someone that is cooperative with you, I mean friends that are always there for you both under rain and in sunshine, bad or good. We help ourselves solve difficult situations of life genuinely without restrictions. We give to each other at difficult times to ease burdens.

We just got attracted to each other and have relatively had and are still having quality discussions that are helpful. During that difficult times of my mum's passing she was very much available and I appreciated that effort and then during her husband's father's burial, (I mean her father in-law's burial) I was completely there helping, organizing and making sure everything ran smoothly and in order. Everything went fine and nicely, she was happy and I was happy too.

I and my friend at her father in-law's burial this year

This is the extent of our quality friendship, we were attracted to each other and it has been going through and fruitfully very well, we are happy.

During my daughter's wedding, she was with me too, showing her support, joyfulness and friendliness. That made me extremely confident on her, as you know, we talk a lot about many of our matters that are separately our intimate needs. We appreciate ourselves, family, our children and husbands.

Thank you everyone for being around my blog, I appreciate all of you.

This is my response to LOH #299.

First image was created by AI from ecency.

Second image is my own picture with my friend.

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