Maybe nobody ever told them that it's okay to cry and that it's a completely normal thing to do. So, you tell them. It's actually beautiful that you are both healing.
Ahh, the ugly words we say when we're mad...damn.That's the time bomb I was telling you. You have to find healthy ways to release that kraken, lol. It's normal, we're human, but we have to remember that our words cary weight. Being angry is okay, but hurting others because of it is a diffrent story.
The reason it’s so embarrassing to apologize is because, deep down, we know an apology can't undo what we've already said or done. So instead, we just dig our heels in. We can't keep swerving like that. Taking accountability is a huge part of growth. Try it, lol,i know it’s uncomfortable at first, but it feels so good. Honestly, the harder it is to apologize, the more you'll want to avoid doing the things you have to apologize for in the first place, lmfao.
You don't have to go through all of these changes in one day, Ruffa. I was worse than that, lol. My proficiency in profanity is the proof. It takes time and patience, my friend. Hugs. 💕❤️🩹
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