The Quiet Terror of Being Too Late—and the Courage to Keep Going Anyway

Every single thing that we do in our life is done with a purpose that it was meant to solve as one as there are a lot of other thought as well that go behind any particular action or effort from our side and all of this needs to be done within a specific time frame and that is why people always think about getting it done quickly within that time limit or it becomes too late to do. All of the efforts become meaningless after that.

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The phrase itself of been too late is something that is always going to be existing within the back of our mind as it is going to push us to do the things that we want to in the time that is available to us and also that fear of missing out is something that never lets this thought get out of our mind but in reality what does too late mean is it something that is actually a thing or it is just something that we have developed to push our cells to get things done is something that needs to be thought about.

Firstly we need to understand that it is something that is going to be putting a little bit of pressure on us which may be necessary or might even be unnecessary as well because the thought of having a deadline as well as also the thing that we need to be getting whatever we are doing in that specific point of time is slowly going to push us and maybe also not let us do any kind of discrepancy which can be a very good thing as it can keep us focus but at the same time it can also put a little bit of undue pressure which can hamper or performance itself and carrying that wait throughout is something that adds a little bit of extra pressure.

The society that we are living in has shaped up a kind of a timeline that is always going to be something that is going to define the two late aspect for everyone and it is kind of something that is extremely common and everyone try to follow us well which is about getting graduated by the age of 22 and then try to be very much successful or at least start something in the age gap of 25 or 26 and then by the age of 30 you can get your family started and later on by around 35 you can start your on family and completely succeed in the things that you want to do and this is the kind of timeline which is kind of globally accepted and its followed as well even though it can be an unintentional thing but it is something that is always in the back of our mind to be following this plan.

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Whenever one of the things that does not align with this thought process or plan we start to think that we are getting to late and now we have to play catch up and that is something which is going to be happening with us whenever we are not going to be equaling that plan another same time when we are a lot behind that plan and there is something that we can't even catch up then people start to believe that it is too late to do anything and everything is now going to be not able to yield any kind of results.

At the same time, many people also believe that it is never too late to do anything, and you can be different in the one you want to do at any point in time. That is something which is believed by a lot of people, but surely there. There are a lot of things that need to be done in a specific time frame and also there. But we just forcefully think that there is a timeline that needs to be followed, and this is something that can only going to be decided by the particular thing in question, which is being asked about, whether it is too late to do something.

One of the biggest factors which makes us think about anything or any point of time to be too late to do something is going to be the regret that is attached with it because even though if it is not something that we are going to be able to do later on we just think about the regret that we might have created because of our actions as well as also the potential regret that we might have if things don't go as per plan and all of this create this perception about to late and that is something which is not always the case but psychological aspect that we implement within itself.

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The biggest fear attached with been too late is the fact that we cannot repair something or even change anything because whatever has happened as happened for the final time and there is nothing that we can do to change it and all of this creates a kind of a paralysis with an ownself which is filled with the lot of fear and that is what is going to be acting as a motivating factor while we still have time or what we think so and that motivates us and at the same time when we don't have time we think it to be as one of the biggest regrets in our life.

Honestly there can be a lot of situations when it is actually to lead and there is nothing else that we can do to be achieving the outcome that we wanted initially and that is something which we need to accept as well but at the same time we should also need to know that me must not ever think about being too late even before doing anything and that is going to be putting us in a lot of pressure and also going to make a thing in a very negative manner which is surely going to impact us negatively and not letting as focus in the best of our potential as well.


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Having it in our mind that we are running out of time has its perks, it's to prompt us to do the right things at the right time instead of doing the right thing at an expired time but we also need to remember that he who is in too much of a hurry shows that what he is about to do is too big for him/her, so haste makes waste.

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Definitely the thought itself has it's own set of benefits to offer as well, but it all comes down to us and how we make the best use of it and turn it to our advantage rather than it becoming a pressure on us.

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