Silence Was My Comfort Zone—Until It Became My Biggest Regret

Throughout our life there are a lot of such situations which can be a very hard lesson for us and those particular events can be teaching a something that we might have never learned and there is a reason why it is a very hard realisation because there was a very opposite kind of thought process that was very much deeply working for us which is why we will not able to even understand it and it to a very drastic situation for us to understand that and this is something that is going to be existing in everyone's life for sure.

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There is always going to be a particular moment that we all dream of going back in which is going to be us doing something else then what we did and changing the outcome as well as the decision that we took back then which led to all of the situations that followed and there is going to be something that we always want to alter in the way the they actually exist and there are quite a few of those in my personal life as well.

One of them is something that is not so glamorous or something that changed my life in a very interesting manner but was a very powerful thing that I need it to understand very much and that was a lesson which I will never be able to forget as it has definitely taught me vital lot of things and also meet me much more meaningful towards myself which was something that I never really paid much attention to until that particular event when I realised all of that which was something that I was making a mess of myself.

Right from the start I was a kind of a person who never really spoke much and that translated to even saying silent in the most important situations as well which also made me not even speaking up for myself in manage situations which was something that was exploited quite a lot and it was a college project when I completely realise that this is a very big flower that I possess as it was a group which had many people within it and everyone was having a different kind of personality as some were very much dominant and many people were very shy to even speak and I was kind of in the middle of all of them and even though I had some ideas that I wanted to contribute but I was too much surprised by other people and I thought it was normal.

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I never really pressed myself to be just keeping on to put my point ahead and try to make it something that is going to be a part of the discussion itself but that is something which I let it slide as well but that was one of the biggest mistake that I made because it's slowly reflected in my past as well where there were a lot of such opportunities where I could have actually made a lot of involvement and decisions as well but I never did and all of that just started to come in my mind as a flash back when the result of the project was announce as in that result all of those people who were dominating had themselves getting many achievement and I was not even mention even though I had a lot of things that I could have end given in that project.

This was a very big realisation for me because it was just out of basic fear of rejection or the mind set that I developed which made me feel that all of this was normal such as getting suppressed by people and staying quite even though I had something to contribute in the situations that I was involved in this is something that is harming me quite a lot which is in the form of missing opportunities and a lot of other things as well which is something that I should not ever let to happen.

After the result day it was something that I never was able to stop thinking about because there were a lot of things that I could have shared and got little bit of appreciation and recognition as well which was something that I never got because of my habit that pulled me back even though I had a lot inside me and these quite moment and one of the most worst one that I ever had and it was a very sudden realisation for me in that I need to stop doing this and have to speak up for my own and regardless of whatever situation I am in I should never be hiding my voice.

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Slowly I shifted my mindset towards been much open and trying to be committed to my ownself and always looking forward towards sharing what I feel is what sharing and that had a very positive impact on myself because it was not something that happened very quickly. After all, I already had a very old habit that I used to carry but surely but the effects were visible and I started to get more valued among people and also satisfaction started to exist within myself and that made me feel very good and confident.

It was a mistake that I still regret today as well that I carried for so long because it definitely made me miss a lot of opportunities as well as also never let my confidence developed to a very big extent and that was something that had no positive outcome in any shape or form which is something that I never really understood but on the other hand it has continuously undermine myself in many ways which has surely been a very regrettable thing.

Ultimately there are a lot of things that I can feel bad about in the past as the way they happened should have not be in the way that actually but surely I am also very fortunate enough that I finally realised what was happening and also shifted my perspective in the best manner which has shown me a lot of results in a very positive sense which has made me grow as a person.

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