"Beyond Beauty: My Realistic Standards for a Meaningful Marriage"

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^{Greetings to All My Esteemed Readers,}
It’s once again another beautiful moment to really pour out my thoughts into words. Today, I find this interesting and dive into a topic that truly cuts across cultures and generations — Marriage Standards. While we are dating, preferences often revolve more around the physical attraction, only few talk about what truly sustains a union which are values, understanding, and shared goals. So as a young man not yet married, my own standards remain rooted more in realism, responsibility, and purpose.

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Physical Appearance: Presentable but Not Priority

Ouh Yes, I do admire beauty. Who doesn’t? But sincerely speaking, it's beyond the glow of looks, I more desire someone presentable, a woman whose appearance suitably complements mine. This not necessarily a model, but of course someone with a confident, radiant presence. My very perfect match in both public and in private.

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Romantic, Supportive & Emotionally Grounded

• I as well value a romantic partner, someone who always makes love feel like a haven, but not a task. Equally, I truly want a woman who is financially supportive to me, not just because I can’t handle the responsibilities, but because the partnership means shared efforts. She must be my own best friend, a safe space, and a mother figure to me and my generation. One who really knows when to nurture and when to challenge.

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Home & Kitchen Responsibilities: A Shared Art

Although I cook so excellently, but I still desire a wife who can even out-cook me. A good Homemade meals foster deeper bonds, and food that's made with love often speaks louder than words. Cooking isn’t just gendered in my home, it’s an art and virtue of love we’ll both share.

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Business-Oriented Yet Family-Focused

• A woman who owns her business holds more a special place in my heart. I’ll definitely support her ventures, not just with finances but with encouragement and of course pride. However, I really prefer she runs a flexible business — not for control, but so that she can build strong emotional bonds with our children, me and the society. The Nannies are not parents, so being the mother she truly deserve is mandatory, her work must be flexible to also carryout the duties of being a wife and a mother.

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Behavior Over Beauty
Just in all that matters, No matter how beautiful she is, behavior sustains the home. A genius, respectful, humble, and wise woman makes life so peaceful. And as I lead, I will definitely reciprocate in love and respect, because true marriage is not merely about control but connection.

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Conclusion

Marriage is not a fairy tale at all. It’s a blend of ones beauty, behavior, and a shared purpose. My standards all reflect the man I am becoming, one who doesn’t seek for perfection but values progress, peace, and a true partnership.

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