Insecurity in old age.

sourch

We go through different stages of life right from the time we are born. Our life is divided into four stages: childhood, adolescence, youth and old age. And our thoughts are different in these stages of life. During childhood, our thoughts are completely innocent, we are all simple-minded people and we are dependent on our parents, but our childhood is spent in a lot of insecurity and fear. Because if we make a little mistake, we will get severe punishment from the adults. During adolescence and adulthood, we have completely different types of thoughts and behaviors. As we think a little differently in these two stages, our curiosity towards different things increases a lot. However, when we come to this adulthood, we have a lot of disagreements with our parents and we feel that they do not understand us in any way, our parents do not adapt to our mentality in any way and they do not love us, due to which they cannot tolerate our happiness and peace. Although there are such thoughts until a certain age in this stage of life, later we understand how important the contribution of our parents is in our life.

We gradually start understanding from this later period of youth that our parents are the only ones who want our own and our good and everyone else is looking for what is worthwhile. However, I think the most difficult time in life is old age, that is, the period of old age. We usually call the period after 60 years old as old age. And this time the appropriate time lasts from sixty years to the very end of death. This time is the most difficult time in life. However, this difficult time is not only for the person who is in old age. Just as that person is in difficult times in old age, the family members of that old person also go through many difficult times. In old age, a person's thoughts are based on his previous life experiences. That is, the way a person has lived his life throughout his life and the way he has experienced it, his thoughts are in old age. However, the insecurity of any person can be observed 100% in old age. Coming to old age means that every person feels that they are no longer needed in this world. The person who comes to old age always feels like a burden to the family.

As a result, people at this age do some activities that are very inconvenient for the family. People at old age feel like a burden and they are always heard saying that they want to be saved when they die. However, at this age, a need and hope to live can always be seen. At this age, people are seen doing contradictory behaviors and activities, due to which family members face some problems. Considering family members as their enemies, speaking contradictory words without understanding the environment or problems, these are seen in people at this age. In fact, at this old age, people become completely ignorant like newborn babies, but at this age, people do not want to understand that they are misunderstanding family members or thinking wrongly about various things. At this old age, people think that they still have the physical and mental ability to do various things. They do not want to believe that they can be wrong now. They are seen saying the opposite in different situations but do not want to accept that they have been wrong or may be wrong.

When people reach old age, they think that they have done a lot of work throughout their life, have adapted to many situations beautifully and have faced difficult situations and have worked hard physically, as a result of which they can do it now. When people reach old age, they suffer from a lot of insecurity because they feel that no one loves them as before or does not give them importance as before. Physically, many times when people reach old age, they become very weak, so they think that since they cannot do any work or do any work physically, they are unimportant to others. When they reach old age, they become a little unbalanced physically and mentally, due to which not everything they say can be accepted, and for this reason they feel that their importance is not being given at all in the family and everyone has become very arbitrary and self-reliant, as a result of which they are no longer needed and their opinions do not matter. In fact, only the family members of the elderly person in the house will understand or know how difficult it is to explain or manage this elderly person. In fact, since people become like small children in old age, they cannot be explained by beating or scolding them like small children, as a result of which they have to understand and explain the elderly in a completely different way, keeping their heads cool and patient.