Causes of Sorrow.

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We all want to be very happy in our lives and live happily and peacefully, and with that, we always get what we want. But we never think about whether what we want is the right thing or the wrong thing, and if we get the thing we want, will we be happy in our life or will that thing become the cause of our life's suffering. However, the biggest cause of our life's suffering or misery is ourselves. We are constantly increasing our needs. We never have control over our needs or we do not stop them, due to which our suffering is always increasing. If we look around us, we will see that there are many animals in this world who do not earn money, but we are the only human race in this world, that is, we are the only ones who earn money, and we have the most suffering in our lives, but no animal in this world has any suffering.

And those animals are constantly roaming around, they are happy but they are never seen dying of hunger, they are just collecting food to satisfy their hunger and living happily. In fact, there is food for all the animals present in our world with which they can satisfy their hunger and live healthily. But we humans are constantly harming nature ourselves, instead of depending on nature, and are destroying our own happiness and peace by being greedy. In fact, our excessive greed, hopes, desires, and needs are the reason for so much suffering in our lives. A newborn child who does not understand anything has no suffering or pain in his mind. Because greed, hopes, desires, and excessive needs have not been created in his mind. As a child grows, the more the need for everything extra starts to be created in his life and all the happiness and peace in his life starts to be destroyed.

So if we have to keep happiness and peace in our life and maintain mental peace in a very beautiful way, then we must keep control over our excess needs, excess greed and hopes. The less our needs are, the more peace we will have in our mind. Nothing in excess is good, so to get something in excess, we have to do a lot of tricks and our present peace is also destroyed due to the fear of losing that extra thing. In the desire to earn more money than necessary, we forget to spend good time, which also destroys our peace of mind. When we put too much hope on a person, our peace of mind will also be destroyed. Because if that person cannot fulfill our hopes, we will be discouraged and will suffer a lot in our mind. The less hope we have in our life for people and the need to get something from people, the better we will be able to mix with everyone and live well.

Also, we will be able to keep peace in our mind and with it, we will be able to keep the sorrows and troubles of our life away. If we get involved in excessive attachment to a person or an object, the fear of losing him will arise in us and this also often becomes a reason for our sadness. This excessive attachment and excessive fear of ours can take away the peace of our life. Excessive attachment to any thing is never good. Therefore, we should constantly restrain ourselves, and control the excess greed, desire, hope, need, affection, fear that we have in us. Only then will we be able to remove the sorrow of our life and live a very happy and peaceful life. We should not have any hope in anyone, whatever someone else does for us from their own heart should be considered as much and enough for us. Only by changing our mentality and thinking can we live beautifully.